My DH and I own a Commercial Recording Studio. We are part of a dying breed. This entire thread is reminding me so much about what has happened to the entire entertainment industry in a nutshell. When you have karaoke queens that have day jobs and work for the glory of being onstage as a weekend warrior, venues cut back what they are willing to pay for entertainment because why pay working professionals when there are people out there who are 'decent' i.e. slightly less than horrendous, and willing to do it for free? (And actually 90% of the people walking around in the real world are tone deaf or partially tone deaf so the paper pushers making these decisions wouldn't know the difference if it hit them in the face!) Like my grandad used to say, why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? The digital age has done so much good, but it also has introduced a lot of riff raff. When Venues cut back, quality of entertainment goes down. Turn on the radio sometimes. It's junk. Venies don't pay, people are burning music for "free" (to them, not the artist!) There's the whole issue of burning and copyrights. In turn, the real working pros out there can't afford to record a quality product anymore. I could go on and on...It's all the same.
It's fine to be a hobbyist, but I totally agree with what Chikabowa is saying and many of the others here. How can a legitimate, tax paying business compete with people who are giving it away for free? You can't. In the digital age, we can take someone who can't sing a lick in tune and make her sound like shes an incredible vocalist. Most of the shows you see people performing on TV and in showrooms are lip synced. We were in Vegas and went to several different shows including Celine Dion. (My DH knows her sound guy.) Guess what? Their running ProTools with a vocal track the entire show with her singing over it. This is Celine! It was the same in all the other shows we went to.
I'd rather quit my industry than work for free. IMO, it's the equivalent of prostituting yourself when you are working for nothing. I mean if one is working for love and doing promotions for PR it's one thing, but when you're unqualified and giving it up for free just because you can, or because you want the glory, then that's something else entirely. I believe in the free market system, but this kind of thing is out of control, and I do believe that the ones getting ripped off in the end are the consumers who may not know the difference up front, but as Chikabowa said, they see it in her photos when they're in someone else's wedding.

We have so many clients that record their CD at their friends "Recording Studio" which is really a computer running Garage Band in a bedroom with a vocal booth made out of a closet.

They come to us to fix their recordings to get it suitable for airplay in our local market. It's pathetic. And a lot of these so called "recording studios" are charging just slightly less than what we charge. They probably are doing it under the table, so no taxes, no liability insurance, no unemployment insurance, no health insurance, no additional rent or cost to upkeep all the equipment, they're probably operating illegally in a residential area not zoned for commercial business. It's disgusting.
And Grillmouster is right. Some of these people can more than afford to pay for qualified pros they are just too tight to do it. We have a client who is a multi-millionaire who recently asked me to shoot his band's photos. I said no. I'm not qualified. I'm still learning. My son's band, I'll shoot for love because that's my kid and I can always re-shoot it if the first shoot doesn't have any keepers in it and he'll just have to suck it up because it's free. But in no way shape or form am I qualified to do a professional shoot. I think a wedding is a pretty big deal to most brides and grooms, so it should be professionally done. If they absolutely can't afford it then maybe someone helping out a relative is ok. It's not great. I mean that for both parties involved. As a friend/relative, I wouldn't want the pressure of having to produce something I am incapable of providing because I don't have the skill set yet. That's a lot of pressure and a lot of potential heartache for all involved, not to mention broken relationships. It's so much less potential heartache to just say, "I love you enough to say no and you need to get yourself a working professional who knows what they're doing."
There is a distinction that some people can't seem to make in their heads: Are you a qualified professional or are you just a hobbyist Karaoke Queen wannabe?
I hope I haven't offended any of you with my words but as you can see this is something I feel very passionately about. There is a huge distinction between a working professional and someone who is a total newbie. I've watched this thread for the last several days and I just couldn't hold it in any longer... I hope none of you take it personally; it wasn't directed at any one of you in particular, just sharing my feelings on the issues...