Wedding Cancelled

[HappyLawyer]

i have a good friend who just did the same thing, i let people know they may input but what they say does not matter-but for her, her family does not like him they want her to do these classes, they give him a hard time, and it is stressing both of them out, so they just decided to cancel everything thus far and i feel for anyone in this situation, it should be what the bride wants but we or some of us have those type of families where they don't listen
good luck

 

[tinkerbell of winter]

Even though you may feel slightly bummed about having to change plans regarding you wedding you are still very lucky that you have someone to love, that loves you back. I am sure when you do end up having your wedding that everything will work out and be so special for you. You are truely lucky and I wish you guys the best. Even though I don't have anyone anymore, I like to try to be happy for those that have found someone and are happy together.

 

[ChrislovesMinnie]

My wife and I are very sorry you have had to go through all this. We both think you h2b should reconsider. Enjoy your day. Make a loving, lasting memory and go on you own to elope at DisneyWorld.
Have that Disney Marriage Experience that you will remember more than the "bad" things that have occurred.
Don't loose out on the memory.
We often think back how we should have done what WE wanted to do but fell back to family issue.
Good luck on whatever you do and remember that sometimes families can be real stressing at times. Just worry about yourselves and each other. That is what is really important.
Ed & Jackie

 

[DAWGPOUNDAJ]

First of all I just wanted to echo the others in saying how sorry I am that you have had to go through this. I PMed you my response to this.

 

[vettechick99]

Sorry about your troubles. That was the exact reason we eloped this past January. It was a great time and we don't regret missing the big wedding one bit!!

 

[Chickkypoo]

I say go for the wedding of your dreams. Why regret being forced into something else later on? We've decided to have our wedding at Disney even though some of my fiance's family is objecting. My family on the other hand is tickled pink that they get to plan another Disney vacation. We figure since we're paying for this wedding, we should have the wedding the way we want it. Besides, we figured either way one of our families were going to have to travel, as they live over 3000km apart. This way both sides have to travel and there's no fighting . Your wedding day is exactly that, YOUR day, so it shouldn't be up to everyone else how you should spend it.

I wish you two luck with what ever you decide.

 

[MrsTink04]

When you get married, the only thing that matters is the two of you and the life you build together...not the life the two of you will build with Aunt Vera. You wake up to each other in the morning, go to sleep with each other at night and have each other to rely on. Trust me, Aunt Vera isn't going to be there when the chips are down...but you two will be there for each other. Therefore, I say it begins with the wedding. Do what the two of you want to do. Is your aunt, cousin, uncle going to quit loving you just because you had your dream wedding? If that's the case, that's their problem...not yours!! Do what YOU and your fiance want. YOU will be the ones to treasure the memories for the rest of your lives. I doubt any of your family members will get happily teary-eyed looking at your wedding pictures in 20 years...but you will. I know my family wasn't crazy about my Disney Intimate wedding, as a lot of them got left out...they got over it quickly and were able to enjoy our wedding and honeymoon stories when we got back.

Good Luck!!! I wish you all the happiness in the world!