We leave tomorrow but having a bad day.

[lonegungal17]

I'm feeling a bit cheated hubby and I are off to our happy place tomorrow but my father called earlier today and told me my grandma has died. I won't be able to afford to go to the funeral as it's in Michigan and we live in the UK but I'm feeling horrible about going on my trip tomorrow. Part of me feels the trip is ruined but the other part of me feels this is just what I need right now. I'm not sure what to do and really just needed to vent.

Mel

 

[Roon]

Hello, so sorry to hear your sad news. I am sure your Grandma would want you to have a great time. Think all your happy thoughts of her.
Thinking of you.

 

[mommy2ash]

i am so sorry your grandma died. i hope you can still enjoy your holiday as im sure she wouldnt want you to be miserable

 

[DLPdaft]

Sorry to hear your news.

I was on holiday when I heard my grandad had died - couldn't get home in time for the funeral. Just take time out when you need it whilst you're away, and go with your feelings, as they will be the right ones for you at the time.

 

[sam_rogers]

sorry to hear that. i hope you can still have a good holiday

 

[scampbunny]

sorry to hear ur news, but sounds like it would be hard whether u were going or not - being so far is always hard....
go, enjoy ur holiday, and maybe go take a time out in the gardens in front of dlh and think of her, am sure shed like that!
*hugs*

 

[jillrobinson]

Sorry to hear your sad news, but as others have said no way would your grand mother wanted to upset your holiday plans or expect you to. Go and enjoy yourself it's what she would want you to do.

 

[mandy5796]

So sorry to hear your sad news, i'm sure you can go on your trip without feeling guilty. Enjoy yourself and have a few moments to think about her on your trip.

 

[mummyal]

Sorry to hear your news . Hope you'll still be able to enjoy your holiday.

 

[liberty]

So sorry to hear your news. I hope you'll still be able to enjoy your trip, like everyone said i think your granmother would want you to have a good time.

 

[Anne64]

So sorry to hear your news - thinking of you

 

[Ware Bears]

So sorry to hear this Mel

 

[TootieBear765]

Mel

So sorry to hear your sad news... I'm sure if your grandmother was anything like mine, there was nothing she would want more than for you to have a lovely time and still know that she is in your thoughts.

Sorry ifs its a corny or insensitive suggestion, but my grandmother never got to anything Disney, though I bet she would have loved it (you'd have to be young at heart to have 16 kids!!) so when we went for the first time, I bought a balloon and took some time out on my own to think of her and let it go, like sending a special postcard. Its something I'll be doing each trip and makes me feel as though she's still a part of my 'happy' times. Maybe you could mark it in some way you find is special to you and her...?

Either way, you are in my thoughts and prayers and sending you a and hoping your trip goes ahead and goes well...

TootieBear x

 

[TheBunnyBear]

Sorry to hear your sad news.... But don't let the news stop you from having a good time on holiday, your Grandma would have wanted that for you.