We had to cancel our trip in June :(

shyboy72

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This is shyboy72’s fiancée again :) I just wanted to tell our story of what led to us canceling our trip to the happiest place on earth this summer.

About two weeks before May had started, shyboy72 was complaining of headaches. He thought that maybe he had a concussion from getting hit in the head by a paintball while he was at a paintball tournament. We scheduled a doctor appointment to make sure. He had 2 CT scans because the first time they said they needed to do another. When he had first arrived at the hospital everyone was acting kind of cold and indifferent to him. After the second scan they began to be nice and attentive, which was a little scary. They then wanted to schedule him for an MRI. When the results came in, the doctor said that shboy72 had a tumor in his brain. At the age of 23, this was quite a shock to him and all of his family.

Right away, the doctors were scheduling appointments left and right to make sure of what they were looking at. A week later, he had surgery to have the 5 cm tumor taken out of his brain. It ended up being about the size of an egg. They had to keep him awake most of the time because the tumor was located at the speech center of his brain. We were all so scared about this because there might be a chance that he would lose some of his speaking capabilities. By the grace of god, the surgery was a success. They had taken out a little more than 90% of the tumor out and he had minor hiccups in his language. The tumor ended up being a low grade slow growing tumor so that is wonderful news. He was in the hospital for 3 days and later released back to his home.

Unfortunately he is not up to speed yet for a fun packed weekend at Disneyland, so we had to cancel our trip for the 3rd weekend of June. It’s a small sacrifice for having my man healthy :) For now, he’s watching a bunch of episodes of Disney specials on the travel channel and watching movies to satisfy his Disney fix. All I can think is of how strong he is and how much I love and admire him. Ideally, I’d love to get married at Disneyland !!!!! but unfortunately, me being a waitress/college student and him working on cars, that won’t be possible. For now, I’m thinking of the Disney Cruise as a honeymoon :) We’ll see what happens.
 
I am sorry you had to cancel, but more sorry of what you have been going through. I am so glad things are working out to be a success. Just keep thinking happy thoughs, and hopefully you guys will be there soon!!

P.S. Good Luck on the honeymoon plans!! That sounds wonderful!:wizard:
 
I'm sorry you had to cancel your trip, but it's wonderful to hear the surgery was a success! Just think you'll have many years now to return. Maybe do a Disney themed wedding? Even if not at DL? Give shyboy72 our best!
 
:hug: :hug: You and shyboy are in my prayers! I am very happy to hear he is alright! I don't what I would have done if that was my DBF, I would have been a wreck. A crying crazy wreck. You're one tough cookie!!

You guys would have been there the same weekend as us! We'll eat a churro for you and keep you in our thoughts! :hug:

Keep us posted, okay! :thumbsup2
 

:hug: :hug: You and shyboy are in my prayers! I am very happy to hear he is alright! I don't what I would have done if that was my DBF, I would have been a wreck. A crying crazy wreck. You're one tough cookie!!

You guys would have been there the same weekend as us! We'll eat a churro for you and keep you in our thoughts! :hug:

Keep us posted, okay! :thumbsup2

Thanks so much prettyprincessbelle :) hope you guys enjoy TSM !!!!! I will defff keep everyone posted !
 
My visit last weekend was up in the air for about two weeks, so I sympathize with how you're feeling. I'm glad to hear that everything is fine now, and hopefully you'll be able to have a special visit in conjunction with your wedding, even if it's just a honeymoon or something like that.
 
I am so glad to hear everything is ok! How scary!! Sorry you had to cancel your trip, but that just means you can plan an even better one for when he is feeling better:) ! You will be in my prayers :hug:
 
I am so sorry for what you both are going through and for having to cancel your trip. I hope he has a speedy recovery. :hug:
 
Thank goodness they were able to get most of it without any real complications.

I wish your fiance a very speedy recovery.
 
What a scary experience to go through. I'm glad Shyboy72's surgery was a success, and add my positive thoughts to the others here that he has a full recovery. When you do visit Disney you'll be able to celebrate so much. :flower:
 
Wow, scary!

My hubby went through something similar in his early 20s (we met when he was 28), but his was inoperable at that time (maybe now with lasers, but not in the early 90s). He actually ended up healing his with the under-the-table help of naturopaths b/c the radiation they wanted to do had too many side effects for his taste, based on where the tumor was. Not to talk about hubby, but to let you guys know something interesting in case you are, well, interested, he went macrobiotic (beyond macro b/c his ND refused to let him have fish, as fish in the States is too polluted and farm-raised is filled with weird antibiotics and such), he had enzyme treatments, and had very expensive visits to hyperbaric chambers (it was all out of pocket). But he did have MRIs throughout and they showed it shrinking within something like 6 months, and it's been gone for a solid 10 years now. His family and friends were scared to death throughout b/c he wasn't following the normal American routine, but it worked!

Can't hurt to clean up a diet while dealing with something like that, so I thought I'd let you know about DH. :goodvibes
 
Oh I am so sorry you are both going through this but so happy the surgery was a success. He is a lucky young man in that this was treatable and that he had you to help him through it. Keep us posted, I am sending lots of prayers and good thoughts your way. And Disneyland will be there for you when he is ready to tackle it full force! Please take care and best wishes.



Molly, that is so scary, I had no idea your dh had been through that. So glad he is okay!
 
Sorry you had to cancel. Sending best wishes your way to you and your man.
 
Ask everyone around you to pray for him. No matter their beliefs just ask for their prayers. Miracles do happen!!
I know. After many many prayers from family, friends, Dd's Teachers, and strangers prayer chains. My brain tumor is not a tumor any more. It is calcified.

The doctors don't know what it is, they can't figure it out. But after many many MRIs there is no growth.

I Know it is a Miracle. They told my Dh I would Die in 3 months, 6 years later I'm alive and well.

PS. I wanted to go to DL for our 25th Wedding Anniversary but it just wasn't going to happen. My Friend threw us a Disney Themed Surprise Party it was so fun! My friend went to the party store and found all sorts of Disney things. The Best was a very long wall cover of the Castle and Sleeping Beauty and they played Disney music! We had a blast
 
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I have been following a friend's saga with her 6 year old who has a brain tumor for 3 years. His is also slow growing, but at his age when the body grows so does the tumor. It has truly been a roller coaster. Hopefully, being 23 and fully grown will make a difference. It also sounds like the tumor was in a fairly accessible portion of the brain (my friend's son's tumor is on the brainstem and they literally had to lift out a portion of his brain to reach it in an 11 hour surgery).
 
Oh my gosh...how scary!

I'm very glad everything came out ok and I'm sorry you had to cancel.

I hope he has a quick recovery and when you do go to Disney it'll be a great celebration!
 


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