really, that's funny.
i called around 7.30 tonight with full intention of leaving a message for her to call us back tomorrow and to my surprise she answered the phone.
actually it was kinda funny because it took me a second or two to answer her when she said "hi this is judy" i was waiting for the rest of the message but it was her live
i'm still hoping we did the right thing - i know it will go away when we arrive for our first trip