Sorry, just saw this. Yes, jenf22, that is me. I have friends who have sailed on the Getaway with older children and enjoyed it, so I think they just aren't always a good for for the young kids. Mine can't do any of the slides, so we were a bit more limited. My twins loved the kids rope course, enjoyed trying mini-golf, and the kids pool/splash area. But I was disappointed that some of the family programming I had read about (make your own pizza, crafts, dance parties, etc) were never scheduled. Dining and the kids club were our biggest frustrations- every single sit-down meal took 2 to 3 hours, and even with a plethora of things to distract the boys, that's still too long. The standard kids menus don't include any fruits or vegetables, and only 2 servers were willing to bring fruit or yogurt as sides. No one would bring vegetables all week. Servers also said there were no straws or plastic glasses, and kept filling the milk/water glasses (very heavy thick glasses for 4 YOs) to the top, so we had spills at many meals. If this wouldn't have frustrated the kids or the staff, I wouldn't have minded that as much. We also encountered visible eye rolls and sighs when we were greeted by our wait staff, as if they were disappointed at having to serve kids. At that point, the boys were very well behaved, so that definitely wasn't a behavior issue. We also had a big bag of coloring books, markers, sticker books, and other activities to distract them, but a 3 hour meal is a lot for a 4 YO (especially on the 2 days where we tried lunch and dinner at a sit-down restaurant- that was 6 hours of meal time). We ended up having to leave with the boys before desserts most of the time (if we could even get dessert ordered, several waiters wouldn't take the kids order and told us to wait until the adults were ready too), as they just couldn't sit still any longer and it wasn't fair to us or other diners. We solved this by eating most of our meals at the buffet, but it was a shame. We were used to the servers paying attention to kids on DCL with magic tricks, napkin tricks, jokes, and even just talking to them, but that didn't happen at all on the Getaway.
The kids club is a structured program, and they have documented steps about their discipline. Our issue was that the staff didn't communicate and didn't follow the documented steps- we were told on day 1 or 2 that they were concerned about our high energy boys and their physicality (they like to sit close and hold hands/hug much of the time in new environments). We asked if these questions were considered step 1 or 2, and we were assured they were not. One of our sons was bullied by another child for the t-shirt he was wearing, and our son did try to get staff to help him out. He was ignored, and when the other child continued to hang onto his shirt and make fun of him, he reacted by getting angry and pushing the other child away. Staff blamed our son for the whole thing, and didn't seem to care about the other child. We didn't appreciate this at all, but definitely did not let our children know- they know and understand that they never to hurt/be physical with any one else, no matter the circumstances. We handled discipline after we left the club that night and things seemed better after that, but the other child caused another issue the 2nd to last night. She wouldn't let go of my son, and he again pushed. We were called to pick up both boys after that and were told that they were not allowed into the kids club for 24 hours. Again, we disciplined our son for the pushing, but were very frustrated by the kids club since they had skipped steps in the process and hadn't communicated that we were already on steps. When my husband went back up to discuss (so that our kids didn't see this, we wanted them to take the pushing seriously and not think that we were OK with the behavior), the kids club staff couldn't explain why they skipped steps or didn't communicate.
It just felt like the entire situation set up young, high energy kids to fail- super long dinners, not being young child friendly with activities/food/glasses and then a very structured kids club with inconsistency and lack of communication. I am definitely not OK with my kids being physical towards other kids at all- this is not acceptable at home, preschool, swimming lessons, or dance and we don't have issues at any other places. They have cruised on DCL twice and had no issues in the kids club/nursery, so this was unexpected for us.