That is a shame and I am glad it all worked out for you. What I am about to say is not to the OP but rather to WDW vets, who only stay onsite at WDW and are venturing to DL and either planning on or thinking about staying offsite. Also, as usual, I have to agree with Hydroguy!
We have visited both DL and WDW evenly at about 17 times each over the last decade. I always stay onsite at WDW but have had five very good stays offsite at DL. I have stayed at all three onsite DL hotels, several times each, and many WDW onsite hotels (have stayed at each level, but not each resort).
While I prefer onsite at DL, I simply cannot wrap my mind and budget around the prices they charge. For our July dates (OP was there off season which is why she got in so "cheap" by DLR standards) the DLH is $400 a night for a standard room, plus tax and if we had a car we'd be paying for parking too. Insane! Is it worht it? Hard to say. We are currently booked at the DLH and the Candy Cane Inn, I feel like the DLH will win out but its with some misgivings I am paying that much.
Harbor Blvd is and is not a typical city street. It is in that there is traffic, but you are generally walking along with many other tourists to a Disney theme park and once inside the Espanlande, to me Harbor is a distant memory. Which is why I am waffling over paying so much more for the DLH, because while walk up DTD is obviously more "Disney" in feel, I generally only spend a few minutes a day walking to and from the resort (even with our daily midday break) and I am not sure its worth the extra $280 a night I'll be paying to walk up DTD. Obviously there's more to onsite than that, but in the end, even after so many great times onsite, its not easy for me to justify that price tag.
As much as I love the three onsite hotels at DL, the DLH in particular, its really only the Grand Californian that can rival a WDW resort since its the only one of the three that was built by Disney. The DLH's refurb definitely was a good move and I can't wait to see all the changes, but as much as I love those hotels, even for me having stayed at and enjoyed them all, I find they are not on the same level as WDW onsite resorts simply because they don't have the expansive grounds and they are on the edge of the DLR meaning you might look out your window and see a busy city street, a neighborhood, etc.
I have seen reviews similar to this before encouraging people to stay onsite, but more often I have seen WDW regulars describing the DLR onsite hotels as below WDW onsite hotels and encouraging people to stay offsite since onsite isn't the same as WDW. I can't agree all the way with either sentiment and I see valid points in all of this but the bottom line is that with only three, very high priced hotels to choose from, and even with loving the onsite hotels at DL, this Disney lover simply cannot say to stay there or don't go. Never in a million years. Based on my love of Disneyland and DCA not to mention five great stays at offsite hotels (Hojo 2x, BWPPI, Camelot and Tropicana).
I guess I just hate to think of anyone doubling or even tripling their hotel budget thinking its the only way to have a magical vacation only to be disappointed and broke!