I think be our guest for breakfast or lunch may be overwhelming as it’s a lot of people moving around constantly. It can be harder to get a table unless you bee line straight to the library which isn’t usually people’s first choice. At dinner it is calmer as the meals take longer and the servers are really The only ones up. Also, the beast is kept off to the side for meet and greets so if you don’t want to meet him it’s very easy to do so. Also, enchanted tales with belle may be one to consider skipping because it also involves the kids participating in the show.