Want to like Disney? You're not talking to someone who is a loyalist to either park, but clearly I'm talking to some who are. I don't have better experiences at Universal I have a more stress free and pleasant experience. That doesn't take away from the feelings I get when I'm on PeopleMover or Carousel of Progress or FOP or the great fun we had with our friends last year. It's really hard with these conversations when people start off with a very pro-Disney viewpoint because the comments skew differently when Universal gets into the picture.
It's not at all about perceiving people to be less stressed at Universal and are therefore friendlier. I wouldn't say that guests are friendlier (as that wasn't even the adjective being spoke about) at Universal but rather just normal people going about their day at a theme park. That's a very good example of the problem here though. You think it's about preconceived perceptions and while I agree that has a time and a place such as someone unwilling to try out Universal because of what they think it's all about, that's not what we're talking about. Like I said I grew up going to both, there's no preconceived notions when you've spent years going to both parks and at different stages of your life.
Time and time again my DISer friends and I have talked about this, it was the same vibe we saw at Silver Dollar City when we went during kid's festival (so tons of kids around). One of the main observations was being used to waiting in line (these are their words not mine) as for why there was a different vibe. And if you think about it many of the complaints stem from line waiting either from the length or the system in place with Legacy FP, FP+, MP and now
Genie+/ILL.
Ever since I joined in 2015 it's been the same complaints about Disney with the pandemic making it worse and Disney's pandemic related changes to their product making it worse. You've been on here longer than me, did you just avoid all the threads giving recent experiences over the years? Or did your love for Disney mean you side stepped those complaints as in one ear and out the other?
But again what makes someone ruder at Universal?
ETA: I'd like to add too that
HHN is not recommended for children and many would recommend waiting til 15+ (rather than the under 13 age provided). Meanwhile at Disney you've got Food & Wine which is a great event but one that has no limitations on age nor time of day and people for ages have been talking about how bad some get there.