Wdw And Same-sex Weddings

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I found this incredibly interesting article on 365gay dot com. I know we've all debated this issue before, but you would think Disney's spokespeople would have thier responses outlined more clearly.

ORLANDO (365gay.com) – On the Feb. 20th episode of The View, well-known wedding planner David Tutera appeared on the talk show to promote his David Tutera Couture Wedding Collection at Walt Disney World Resorts in Orlando, Fla. The collection allows the happy couple to choose between four elaborate wedding styles.

But are those weddings available if there are two brides or two grooms? Short answer: no.

According to Walt Disney World spokesperson Jason DiPietre, Disney's Florida property requires a valid Florida marriage license in order to offer their services. But getting that answer was far from a straightforward task, as the Walt Disney World Weddings website and the Disney consultants at first gave confusing, often contradictory information.

The fact is, Disney's Fairy Tale Weddings and Honeymoons offers wedding ceremonies, not marriage licenses. The two things are legally completely separate; no license is legally required or necessary for such a ceremony to take place. When asked why Disney, a private corporation, insisted it needs a valid marriage license to offer wedding services, DiPietre responded that what "makes the marriage binding and recognized by the state [of Florida] is the license, so that is why we need the license."

Florida state law, however, does not regulate to whom Disney may offer their wedding services; it only regulates which ceremonies the state recognizes as legal. Though pressed further on the issue, DiPietre only stated: "The Walt Disney World Resort is open to everyone, every day. We extend our welcome to everyone and treat all of our guests with respect."

While Disneyland Resort in California also requires a California marriage license to hold a wedding on their property, they will host same-sex commitment ceremonies for domestic partners. (The Florida property won't.) But there is a catch. Weddings with marriage licenses are handled by Disney's wedding team and, should the couple choose, the ceremony may be held in Disney's Rose Court Garden. Commitment ceremonies, however, are handled by the local corporate office and are held in one of the banquet halls or ballrooms. Only heterosexual couples are allowed access to the Rose Court Garden.

We also contacted David Tutera, Disney's highly touted couture wedding designer, to ask whether he was aware of Disney's discriminatory policy. A spokesperson for Tutera informed us: "David believes that any celebration that allows two people – gay or straight – to celebrate their love is a beautiful thing. David certainly would prefer all states recognize gay marriages, but at the current time, the state of Florida does not."

When pressed to address the fact that Disney chooses to base their policy on Florida's discriminatory laws, Tutera's spokesperson referred us back to Disney and declined further comment. Confusingly, Disney does say that anyone possessing a valid marriage license from Massachusetts, the only US state to currently allow same-sex marriage, would be allowed to have a "vow renewal" on Disney's Florida property. (Calls to Disney's California Media Relations department to clarify this and other issues pertaining to their properties were never returned.) When asked to explain the discrepancy between allowing "vow renewals" with a marriage license Florida doesn't recognize, but not the actual wedding ceremony which has no legal standing, spokesperson DiPietre simply referred us to his last statement.

Fascinating!

Randall


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Yup, that pretty much sums up all the stuff we've been hearing for the last few years.

Thank you for posting it; we should probably make it a sticky! :confused:
 
BAD PR for Disney thats why they wont do it, the same goes for why the dont have official gay and lesbian days at wdw. they stand to lose millions for right wing christian boycotts. i m not gay but i support that everyone should have the same rights as i do. you should be allowed to marry whom ever you want. you deserve the same benefits i get from marriage. keep fighting many straight people do support you, :cool1:
 
I'm not gay myself, but I do support gay rights. I have a cousin who's gay, so stuff like this does somewhat hit home (though obviously not as much as it would to the gay community.)

I know I'll get flamed for this, but it's my belief - There shouldn't be gay days at WDW. I'm Jewish and I don't think there should be jew days. I don't tihnk there should be african-american days, christian days (night of joy as it's called), muslim days, brazilian days, white days - ANY days.

People are equal no matter who they are. Noone should be singled out or made to feel uncomfortable in WDW because a day is specially set aside for any race, religion, ethnicity or sexual preference.
 

I'm not gay myself, but I do support gay rights. I have a cousin who's gay, so stuff like this does somewhat hit home (though obviously not as much as it would to the gay community.)

I know I'll get flamed for this, but it's my belief - There shouldn't be gay days at WDW. I'm Jewish and I don't think there should be jew days. I don't tihnk there should be african-american days, christian days (night of joy as it's called), muslim days, brazilian days, white days - ANY days.

People are equal no matter who they are. Noone should be singled out or made to feel uncomfortable in WDW because a day is specially set aside for any race, religion, ethnicity or sexual preference.

I sure won't flame you; I think that's a perfectly lucid view.
 
I'm not gay myself, but I do support gay rights. I have a cousin who's gay, so stuff like this does somewhat hit home (though obviously not as much as it would to the gay community.)

I know I'll get flamed for this, but it's my belief - There shouldn't be gay days at WDW. I'm Jewish and I don't think there should be jew days. I don't tihnk there should be african-american days, christian days (night of joy as it's called), muslim days, brazilian days, white days - ANY days.

People are equal no matter who they are. Noone should be singled out or made to feel uncomfortable in WDW because a day is specially set aside for any race, religion, ethnicity or sexual preference.

I do see your point. I to an extent I agree with it. But what is to stop any community from picking a date on the calendar and converging on Orlando? There is no reason jew days, muslim days, or any other "days" can't exist. It's just not been organized as such -- yet.

That is how Gay Days started. A group said, "Gee, lets all go the first Saturday in June and wear red shirts." Pick a weekend. Pick a name. Go for it. When you are here, I'l wear the color of your choosing with great pride and walk down Mainstreet U.S.A. with you!

Randall


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I don't think there's anything to stop communities from organizing it. I just think Disney should stay clear of doing such things.

When I'm in Disney World, I don't want to think "Hey, there's a bunch of gay people", or "hey, there's a bunch of muslims". I want think, "hey, there's a bunch of happy people."

When I was in high school I was harassed alot for being Jewish. And I'm not even someone who makes it known. But once it's out there, it's out there. I'm not ashamed of it, but at the same time, it got very difficult putting up with the anti-semetic remarks from ignorant people. I just can't imagine ever wanting to go out in a public place just to let it be known that I'm Jewish, like it's a fan club trip or something. I would just chose to be proud of my heritage in my own way. I don't need anyone's approval. And at the same time, I feel no need to tell the entire world, "HEY, I'M JEWISH!"
 
Just voicing my support to make this a Sticky - I first found DISboards by searching the web for info on gay weddings at Disney. This is the only place I found information on it. WDW didn't even return my email....
 
Hi

Looking for a wee bit of advice....I probably already know that its a no fly but if any0ne will know it will be you guys......

My partner recently asked me to "marry" him and we have been talking a lot about this...his dream "wedding" would be at the Grand Floridian Wedding Pavillion but I do not think that this would be appropriate to Disney

Does anyone know if this is out of the question?

Any other suggestions?:bride:
 
Hi

Looking for a wee bit of advice....I probably already know that its a no fly but if any0ne will know it will be you guys......

My partner recently asked me to "marry" him and we have been talking a lot about this...his dream "wedding" would be at the Grand Floridian Wedding Pavillion but I do not think that this would be appropriate to Disney

Does anyone know if this is out of the question?

Any other suggestions?:bride:

Welcome! Great question and I think it might help if you take a look at our new sticky up above on Gay Weddings at WDW.

Unfortunately, you won't find much good news.:confused:
 
Other suggestions? Yep.

There are any number of beautiful areas around WDW, but I'm not sure of all of their policies (Leu Gardens, Bok Tower...ect).

However, there is a LOVELY place on Cocoa Beach, owned by two lovely men who will assist you with your ceremony. They are right on the beach, and have lovely grounds.

If you'd like more info, send me a PM as I don't want to violate board policy unwittingly by providing information that may be seen as advertising.

By the way, CONGRATULATION!!! :love:
 
Time to let this thread go and sticky the new one that allows us to actually get married at WDW!!!! I am so freakin' happy! Maggie
 
With the great good news that Disney has finally gotten on board with same-sex weddings, this thread is not only unstuck, it is now officially closed! May it long rest in peace.
 
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