HollyTyler
<font color=deeppink>I know, I'm stuck on that Mic
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Was going to add, but the Dis goes down at 9.05am my time, that I personally don't think there is anything wrong with being a 'loner'. I think many of us are and I find other people finding us strange just because they aren't is a little unnecessary!! The world is full of a whole rainbow of different people that makes up a wonderful whole. If we were all loud exuberant extraverts it would be hard to find a place anyway!!!If we were all so called loners they it would be a quiet uninteresting place indeed.
John and I are both loners and I don't know how we managed to find each other, but we fit perfectly. As many of you know, we turn down requests to join larger fun tables, and I hope you realise it isn't because we don't like you or don't want to spend time with you. It is just us. Michelle is a loner, but loves this kind of large group setting. Just different, and we should all embrace our differences. I think families are much harder on other family members who don't fit their idea of norm as they just feel they can treat people badly because they are family and it has worked before.
As they say you can't choose your family but you can choose your friends. But, we can choose not to be intimidated by nasty family members!!!
Ok, now back to the wonderful world of planning cruises!!!![]()
Perfectly said, Marilyn!

