Thank you Kathe.....so nice of you to say.
John and I talked about what we wanted the baby to call us. John is Pops to Tom and Kris. He said he'll keep it the same for the baby. I'm Debbie to Tom and Kris because I didn't want to be called grandma at 34 years old. But this time I think I'll have the little one call me Grams. John said his favorite grandmother was Grammy and I had a Gram. So Grams it is!!! Pops and Grams!!
I messaged Tom about it. He's excited and scared. I think he will meet his obligations and finally grow up. I told him he has our support and love. This is probably the best thing that could happen to him.
Rachel is his girlfriend and mother of the baby. I friend requested her on Facebook. I would love to keep in touch and get to know her. We'll see how it goes.
Pops and Grams

The fact that Tom is excited and scared is a good thing, it means he is welcoming this new little one into his life but realizes what a great responsibility he/she will be.
Hope you are able to get to know Rachel.She would be blessed to have your friendship.