stephanie23
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Ok this is wayyy off topic but I dont talk to many other parents.. most of my friends are single and have no kids. Heres the story
My parents babysit my kids fulltime. My daughter plays with the little boy who lives next door(he is 6) almost everyday. My mother just had surgery so she has her friend there to help her. Yesterday my daughter went to the little boys house(his mother is an at-home mom) and played for about an hour like usual. When my mother walked over to get her the mother told her that she was on the phone with the doctor for about 10 minutes and when she came back her son was dancing around naked... but my daughter wasnt paying attention she was playing a game.
So I get home from work about 5 and my mother tells me what happoned. I talk to my daughter(5) and she says nothing happoned. We go to leave and my mom notices her underware are different. I look and she has on HIS underpants. She tells me they were playing a fighting game(this is a game he made up) and he won so he was the master and she had to do what he said.
He told her he wanted to switch underware. So she did... when I went to talk to his mom she acted like nothing was wrong with it... she said"I studied child development and nothing would happon at this age". When she asked him he screamed at her " I SAID I DONT KNOW" and she let him continue to play and ignore her.
I personally do not care what she studied or what she thinks, what her son did was wrong. I dont know what I should do. I have talked to my daughter and she tells me this is all that happoned. I checked her out and she looks OK. Should I just drop it? Am I over reacting? Please help.
My parents babysit my kids fulltime. My daughter plays with the little boy who lives next door(he is 6) almost everyday. My mother just had surgery so she has her friend there to help her. Yesterday my daughter went to the little boys house(his mother is an at-home mom) and played for about an hour like usual. When my mother walked over to get her the mother told her that she was on the phone with the doctor for about 10 minutes and when she came back her son was dancing around naked... but my daughter wasnt paying attention she was playing a game.
So I get home from work about 5 and my mother tells me what happoned. I talk to my daughter(5) and she says nothing happoned. We go to leave and my mom notices her underware are different. I look and she has on HIS underpants. She tells me they were playing a fighting game(this is a game he made up) and he won so he was the master and she had to do what he said.
He told her he wanted to switch underware. So she did... when I went to talk to his mom she acted like nothing was wrong with it... she said"I studied child development and nothing would happon at this age". When she asked him he screamed at her " I SAID I DONT KNOW" and she let him continue to play and ignore her. I personally do not care what she studied or what she thinks, what her son did was wrong. I dont know what I should do. I have talked to my daughter and she tells me this is all that happoned. I checked her out and she looks OK. Should I just drop it? Am I over reacting? Please help.
) Take the opportunity to discuss privates, and how no one sees them except herself, parents, and the Dr. You could also have them play outside for a while so Grandma can keep a better eye on the situation.
Maybe she was just embarassed and trying to downplay it in front of you... or worried if she made a big deal that you would, too. At any rate, an apology is good! Try not to worry! 
