I would love a nice, relaxing, spontaneous experience at WDW.
We could arrive at the park when we feel like it, wander around, taking in details, and experience any attraction that looked appealing, with little to no wait. Whenever we got hungry, we could walk right into to a restaurant that served whatever food that we were in the mood for at that very minute.
That's what I want.
Unfortunately, that is impossible.
Therefore, I think any other park touring system requires compromise.
The old system, pre-FP, required lots of waiting. I came to the MK with my High School group in the 80's and I remember crowds and waiting in line. I had fun with my friends, but certainly was not impressed by WDW. Yes, it was spontaneous- there was certainly no plan- but we were able to only do a few things all day.
The Original FP system allowed us to ride whatever we wanted without waiting in long lines, including some repeat rides. We really used it to our advantage. But it did require tons of strategy and day-of planning. It also required an early start and
lots of running around to coordinate FP and stand-by combinations. I would definitely not call it relaxing or spontaneous. Luckily DH is a marathon runner, so he was usually the designated FP collector.
The FP+ system requires advanced planning and a little tech savvy to ride a few of the really high-demand attractions. However, I can usually get FP+ for Space Mtn, Splash, TOT, EE, etc., the day before. When we combine rope-drop standby and later-in-the-day FP+, we usually get to experience several of our favorites with low wait times. While it does require more advanced planning, I find it makes the actual touring day less stressful for us. You arrive at the park, not necessarily at rope drop, and you know you have 3 rides already scheduled. That frees you from worrying if FP's are gone for the day or if lines will be so long everywhere that you will not get to experience anything. On the other hand, I don't try to help friends plan their trips as much if they have never experienced FP+ before. I have no idea how to explain it all to them quickly or simply. I can only refer them to planning resources and tell them to read. If we wanted to take a trip with extended family, like the grandparents, I would have to plan everything for them at the same time I planned for us.
Regarding same-day restaurant ADR's-How would this work? I am trying to picture what would happen at 8:00 am at the MK. Would cm's let in anyone who said they wanted an early breakfast? Would there then be a mad stampede to BOG, CRT, and CP? I would think there would be a mad rush at rope drop as people run to the most popular restaurants. We often have a hard time getting an early breakfast ADR at CP even months ahead. I just don't see how making everyone wait until that day- so we are all racing to get in at the same time- will make it calmer and more pleasant.
I totally get Kevin's point that there is too much stress and planning. I think I understand what he wants. I just don't see how it can exist at this point, with modern Disney tourists. If they know something they want is available, they will learn how to get it, and strategize how to get it first. That strategy will be shared until we are all racing to get what we want. The race may be in real life, on foot, or it may be through the
MDE app, but everyone will race to get there first.