Was this too mean? UD: It's official, he doesn't get it.

[BabyPiglet]

Yep, it was grilled cheese boy. LOL! Now I won't be able to think of anything but referring to him as "grilled cheese boy". AHAHA!
My BFF kinda "interrogated" him and found out all these things - stuff he had planned for us when we got together! He wants to cook for me, take me to dinner, take me to the movies, "protect" me, etc, etc.

Hm, okay, grilled cheese boy sounds like he needs to come back down to the real world. Is it just me or does it sound like he's been living in some fantasy where you and him are in a relationship? Creepyyy.

 

[PigletGurl]

Aren't you the least bit interested in him? lol

 

[Sparx]

this guy sounds really weird. like he's been sitting around thinking about dating you for a long, long time. i would probably ignore him at this point.

 

[life of the party]

this guy sounds really weird. Like he's been sitting around thinking about dating you for a long, long time. i would probably ignore him at this point.

ita

 

[Disney Dork]

My BFF kinda "interrogated" him and found out all these things - stuff he had planned for us when we got together! He wants to cook for me, take me to dinner, take me to the movies, "protect" me, etc, etc.

O__O

Ok, that would probably make me really nervous if I were you. He seems to be caught up in this whole 'dream perfect relationship' idea and, honestly, pretty much everyone KNOWS that those rarely ever happen in the real world.

I don't know if you should be horribly mean to him tho. Maybe just saying what you did to us would be best. Just tell him that you don't think it'll work out, because going out with him would be like going out with your brother. It's not that you don't LIKE him, because you do. You just like him more on the family side of things rather than as a boyfriend. And if he doesn't get it...and you know he has a sister/close female cousin...ask him how odd he would feel if he were forced to date her. Then maybe he'd understand and get off your case.

Good Luck! <3

 

[imabrat]

aren't you the least bit interested in him? Lol

no!

 

[imabrat]

Evidently, I wasn't mean enough because he won't leave me alone! He sent me two more messages last night (benign stuff, nothing to do with the topic at hand but still!), a friend request (after he deleted me out of anger I'm assuming), and 2 chat requests. During one of the chats he kept asking if I got his messages and why I didn't reply. This morning, I log on facebook and there it is - a pop up chat message from him!

I'm not making this up, but I swear I wish I was!

I'm not going to tell him anything about my school schedule because I KNOW he will try to find me in between classes. So, how do I try to get this message through his head : "I'm NOT INTERESTED!"?

 

[HSMndLKfan92]

Evidently, I wasn't mean enough because he won't leave me alone! He sent me two more messages last night (benign stuff, nothing to do with the topic at hand but still!), a friend request (after he deleted me out of anger I'm assuming), and 2 chat requests. During one of the chats he kept asking if I got his messages and why I didn't reply. This morning, I log on facebook and there it is - a pop up chat message from him!

I'm not making this up, but I swear I wish I was!

I'm not going to tell him anything about my school schedule because I KNOW he will try to find me in between classes. So, how do I try to get this message through his head : "I'm NOT INTERESTED!"?

At this point, you may need to avoid him like the plague.

 

[Sparx]

delete this guy off facebook.

does he have your phone number?

 

[imabrat]

No, not that I know of. I've never given it to him, and my friends KNOW not to give out my number without asking me first.

 

[Sparx]

No, not that I know of. I've never given it to him, and my friends KNOW not to give out my number without asking me first.

well thats good. this seems like one of those guys you'll end up changing your phone number over

 

[imabrat]

well thats good. this seems like one of those guys you'll end up changing your phone number over

Yeah, I mean, I don't even know this kid! I know who he is, but I don't think I've said more than 20 sentences to him! The last time I saw him was 3rd period Wed + Thur for class, but I ended up getting switched out of the class for another reason. The last time before that was Homecoming 2008, and I think all we said was "Hi". Didn't talk much before that either, I didn't even know he was in one of my 8th grade classes! This came all out of left field. Needless to say, I'm creeped out. So are my two best friends, and their moms too. They read it off to their moms and mine and it seems like we're all creeped out.

 

[Sparx]

Yeah, I mean, I don't even know this kid! I know who he is, but I don't think I've said more than 20 sentences to him! The last time I saw him was 3rd period Wed + Thur for class, but I ended up getting switched out of the class for another reason. The last time before that was Homecoming 2008, and I think all we said was "Hi". Didn't talk much before that either, I didn't even know he was in one of my 8th grade classes! This came all out of left field. Needless to say, I'm creeped out. So are my two best friends, and their moms too. They read it off to their moms and mine and it seems like we're all creeped out.

that is really really creepy. do you know anything about him? like, does he normally do this to girls?

 

[imabrat]

that is really really creepy. do you know anything about him? like, does he normally do this to girls?

I have no idea! I've seen him get "physical" with girls but according to what he said to my bff, he wasn't looking for that. rolleyes: puhleaaaaaasee, every 16 year old boy is randy and looking for some action!) OTher than that, I have no idea about this dude!

The one thing I found out is his little brother had quite an obsession with one friends little sister back in pre-k! Apparently it was so bad the teachers had never seen anything like it and had to call in someone. (I don't know if that meant a counselor, police officer, or whatever)

 

[Babyjustrun]

Uh-oh. Don't think I was mean enough. His latest message;



He keeps trying to "chat" me on Facebook but I'm keeping it simple and non-intrusive. I hate this; I'm not ready for boys and relationships at all!

Annnnnd he has really bad grammar

But seriously, this guy is creepy. You don't know him, and instead of him trying to get to know you he sends you creepy messages on FACEBOOK. Honestly, that kid doesn't know how to go about asking a girl out.

Yeah I'd just avoid him completely.

 

[imabrat]

Ugh, he doesn't seem to be getting the message.

 

[crazytp93]

Ugh, he doesn't seem to be getting the message.

I think unfortunately, your gong to have to be a little meaner, or sterner to him.

It seems like he's clueless and doesn't get the message. I would try to give him a stronger hint that you have no interest in him, whatsoever. (if you haven't already)

 

[imabrat]

I'm ignoring him. I've been ignoring everything he's tried to say today. I'm just scared for these next coming football games, I know he goes and I'm not about to stop going out with my friends. I've enlisted bodyguards just in case, LOL.

 

[KitKat_Tink]

If he doesn't get it you're going to flat out say no. And tell him that he's going to have to leave you alone. I got asked out over facebook but thankfully the guy got it when I told him that I wasn't interested. I hope it all works out!

 

[imabrat]

Another one;

September 5 at 10:47pm
Hey. Heres another poem....
"I see you everyday, but all I can say is hi. I think of you all day and night. All I do is think of what could be. I see you having fun, but all I do is smile, and watch. So I sit here and write this to you, thinking of you, dreaming of you. But for now all I can do is dream. Dream of what could be. Dream of you. Dream of you and me being together. Dreaming of me being there for you. Dreaming of being by your side. Drraming of being your protection.
Sent via Facebook Mobile

I'm done. No more Mr. Nice Sonya. I'm replying "Dream off. (Other terms ) I'm not interested and now I'm not even willing to be friends. Don't talk to me!"