I'm sorry for all the trouble the OP experienced.~No one enjoys such an encounter, especially at the beginning of a vacation. Yet, everyone deals differently when faced with a similar situation. It's all a matter of personal choice based upon many factors, (personality,etc.).
Yet, I still seem to be completely oblivious to most all the "negative" aspects of WDW. I mainly tend to focus attention on my DH & DD...and spending time together with them, as a family. During the rest of the year, we are so busy and caught up with the DAY-TO-DAY grind, we rarely have time to truly FORGET about all responsibilities of life. Walt Disney World is a sanctuary, and affords us the ability to LEAVE IT ALL behind. We feel the SAME exact euphoria and excitement when we escape to DL for an afternoon.
Therefore, when we are together during the summer, which is the longest of all our yearly excursions, we thoroughly ENJOY and SAVOR every second. There is truly NO WAY anyone could possibly "ruin" our visit. Oh, we've definitely encountered the sour-faced CM's, and frustrated pent-up angry with the world, guests too...but we laugh, and let it run-off us...like water off a duck's back. Life is too darned short, NOT to have a great time. So, we simply "choose" to ignore the negative aspects/people, and focus on all of the positive. The sun shining, the water flowing, one another's voice and smile...etc. As long as we are together, and safe from harm...we are FREE to enjoy our time(anywhere). "Misery LOVES company." There are plenty of unhappy, miserable folks in the world...and unfortunately, some work and visit WDW.

So, we make a concerted conscientious effort to avoid these malcontents whenever possible, and the rest of the time...we simply "kill them with kindness."
We feel the same about the
Disney Cruise we reserved for 2005 off the coast of our home...Southern Cali. We could care less about the ports...and would enjoy the cruise if the MAGIC merely turned circles off the coast! It's the TIME we share together as a family...that's the true essence of the meaning of the MAGICAL GATHERING to us. We've always had our little inside secret. In our family...the MAGIC, lives permanently "inside" of us. SAFE from the clutches of the naysayers....and the pessimists. We gaze past their discontent and Jaded glare, and see nothing but BLUE SKIES, BILLOWY CLOUDS...and CASTLES FILLED WITH FANTASY!
I wish all of you the same MAGIC we experience, time and time again.
TTFN...DF99
