First of all we all know how we can be. A bad start can ruin the whole trip. We all do this unintentionally, but we still do it. If there is a bad start, we need to try to let it go. (I know, I'm so bad at this) I heard some advice one time that really made me think. Do we think getting all mad is going to ruin their day? Usually not. (For example: Someone cuts you off in traffic. It makes you mad and puts you in a bad mood all day. That person probably didn't think twice about it, while we're still huffing and puffing about it hours later)
That being said, there is no excuse for everyone you encounter to be so unfriendly. (Maybe it was the weather-you know, when it's cloudy outside, we tend to get crabby) There are a lot of people at Disney that are wonderful people, but there are also a lot of people who are just not nice. I think sometimes a problem is that they bring in people that don't speak clear English, or can't understand you completely.
BUT we have to remember, AS NICE AS WE ALL ARE to the CM's, there are those mean, mean people, just being mean all the time that can ruin the CM's day. We need to try to be sympathetic, but the CM's need to do their job and try to bring the "magic" to everyone.
And that $7 dollar thing is rediculous. Almost every single person in the world feels they are not making enough money. If we all had a poor attitude about it, then EVERYWHERE you went EVERYONE would be jerks. They choose to work there. If they can't have a positive attutude about it, then they shouldn't be working there. We all have our bad days, but there is no excuse for eveyone you meet to be rude. (Thank GOD that last time I was there it wasn't like that, but I've been places like that and it's miserable) I do think though, that if they paid their employees more money, it would attract a whole new class of people that would respect their job more.
As far as the places needing to be clean, I agree with that, but during certain times, things can get unnoticed. I think we may be too tough on them. Just like at home, our house can get a little messy during peak hours, the same is at WDW. If everywhere you go it is like that, then yes, there is a problem, but a few places here and there shouldn't be a problem. We need to be more understanding.
I think they should have an incentive program for employees that do a good job. (Maybe they do have this) Is there a place that you can report good employees? I would LOVE to keep names and report them that they are doing a spectacular job!