My thoughts and prayers are with the Klose family during this terrible time of loss.
If I was closer, I would make a casserole and a cake for Kevin and John. (In the South, we cook when someonce passes away - we can't help it, it's just what we do.)
May the love your Father has for your family carry you through this difficult time. I hope you feel the support we are pushing through cyber space to you, John and your entire family.