Most of the posts you’re referring to are not exactly siding with the boss; most of us probably agree the boss was being a jerk. The larger point being made was of a practical nature. This kind of conflict can arise unexpectedly in a workplace and quite frankly, anybody with age, experience (and professional success) had advised that sucking it up and moving on is the right play here. Running this up the HR chain is quite frankly absurd and won’t end well for the receptionist, who by the way, is extremely expendable. And I’d love to be a fly on the wall of the employment lawyer’s office when she tries to mount a case for wrongful dismissal. (Hyperbole of course.)
But yet a combination of these things are how most of us try to gain knowledge and understanding of complex issues outside our areas of expertise. What would you suggest instead?![]()
Most of the posts you’re referring to are not exactly siding with the boss; most of us probably agree the boss was being a jerk. The larger point being made was of a practical nature. This kind of conflict can arise unexpectedly in a workplace and quite frankly, anybody with age, experience (and professional success) had advised that sucking it up and moving on is the right play here. Running this up the HR chain is quite frankly absurd and won’t end well for the receptionist, who by the way, is extremely expendable. And I’d love to be a fly on the wall of the employment lawyer’s office when she tries to mount a case for wrongful dismissal. (Hyperbole of course.)
But yet a combination of these things are how most of us try to gain knowledge and understanding of complex issues outside our areas of expertise. What would you suggest instead?![]()
In the current climate, that would eliminate at least 75% of the restaurants in our area. Which really is unfair to the owner, who may be pro vaccine, but is unable to find enough vaccinated people willing to work to meet such standards. As a business owner, I can want to have all my employees vaccinated and can offer all the incentives I want to make that happen. But the min I make it mandatory, I would lose a good portion of my good employees and not be able to replace them, which would mean I can't operate. As it is, restaurants are really struggling to find employees, even with big sign on bonuses and other incentives. Adding in the vaccine requirement would really be a deal breaker for many.I would like to see a grading system like restaurants get from health inspections. Like a big green A if 95%+ employees are vaccinated and so on. If I knew that only had 50% of the staff at a restaurant were protected, when the vaccine is easily available and costs the person nothing, I would never eat there again.
I thought I read the trials won't be complete until 2023. Can they approve before the trials are complete? Do they speed them up?
I think you are confused. The "E" in EUA is for emergency, not experimental.We will just have to agree to disagree.
as of last Wednesday, I am 2 weeks past my second dose. This was my choice to be vaccinated with a vaccine that is still experimental at this point. I don’t believe a vaccine that it NOT yet fully APPROVED should be able to be forced upon people.
Did the scientists come out overnight and say that you cannot spread Covid if you’re vaccinated? Last time I checked, this was still not known.
I really wish people would get off their high horses about the vaccine and stop belittling who are still hesitant to get it.
Someone not wanting the vaccine is someone that makes poor choices. I might rethink them working for me.
Someone not wanting the vaccine is someone that makes poor choices. I might rethink them working for me.
I love this post so muchHow many people do you employ in your business? Do you ask a prospective employee if they've ever cheated on their wives? Operated under the influence and never been caught? Do they smoke? I can think of plenty of "poor choices" your employees probably make that you have no idea about, that you somehow view as less evil as a refusal to take a vaccine in your mystical "good choices" hierarchy. "Oh Bob, he hits his wife every night after he drinks a sixer and he has the work ethic of a sloth, but at least he's vaccinated. Rick over there is my hardest worker and he fosters five children and runs a non-profit on the weekends, but get this...he didn't take this vaccine. FIRED!"
The crazy part of all of this is how people have taken something like a vaccine, which have existed for hundreds of years, and made it the next "politics". First it was which team you liked (oh you like the Yankee's? Scumbag!), then it was political side you were on, now it's if you've taken this vaccine (not the other 19 vaccines we are given in our lifetime, this exact, specific one is all that matters). We can't just let people live their lives, we need to DEMONIZE them for daring to think or speak or act differently than what is "normal". This is not a good world to pass down to your children.
Some medical questions are asked at the front desk upon check in though and not every doctor appointment is done behind closed doors. When I got my vaccine it was in a cubicle partition with people just over the wall that could hear every word. When I was in the hospital we were 2 to a room with a curtain in between.A couple of reasons.
Because, while in this case the employer has a legitimate interest in this information, they must take the same steps to keep it private as a medical facility would and that generally means limiting exposure of that information to people who do not need to know it. Just like a Doctor will not ask a patient their sexual history out in a crowded waiting room.
And also because of the inherent nature of employer-employee relationships. Especially with the employer being the owner of the business, 'asking' a subordinate something is the same as telling them to tell you. If a boss 'asks' a janitor to sweep the floor, you know he's not really asking right?
To be fair, anti-vaxxers are nothing new and I've been judging them harshly for it for years.now it's if you've taken this vaccine (not the other 19 vaccines we are given in our lifetime, this exact, specific one is all that matters). We can't just let people live their lives, we need to DEMONIZE them for daring to think or speak or act differently than what is "normal". This is not a good world to pass down to your children.
To be fair, anti-vaxxers are nothing new and I've been judging them harshly for it for years.![]()
Some medical questions are asked at the front desk upon check in though and not every doctor appointment is done behind closed doors. When I got my vaccine it was in a cubicle partition with people just over the wall that could hear every word. When I was in the hospital we were 2 to a room with a curtain in between.
I agree that the relationship between the two parties puts pressure on the lower report to answer but I also don't think it would be insubordinate to refuse. A janitor being asked to do something within their job responsibilities is different and not a good parallel.
To be fair, anti-vaxxers are nothing new and I've been judging them harshly for it for years.![]()
In the interest of this thread though you were getting your vaccine at the time meaning you were already willing assumedly by sitting down allowing someone to vaccinate you, the person administering your vaccine wasn't your boss either.Some medical questions are asked at the front desk upon check in though and not every doctor appointment is done behind closed doors. When I got my vaccine it was in a cubicle partition with people just over the wall that could hear every word. When I was in the hospital we were 2 to a room with a curtain in between.
I was replying to this specific portion as you made it sound like no one cares about other vaccines people have received.To be even more fair, someone can be pro-vaccine and anti this particular vaccine. Or not even anti this vaccine, but having adopted a more "wait and see" approach? Do you have room in your judgments for different levels of offense, or is it all or nothing? I think you unironically proved my point. I think there's a saying about judging others in the Good Book...
The crazy part of all of this is how people have taken something like a vaccine, which have existed for hundreds of years, and made it the next "politics". First it was which team you liked (oh you like the Yankee's? Scumbag!), then it was political side you were on, now it's if you've taken this vaccine (not the other 19 vaccines we are given in our lifetime, this exact, specific one is all that matters). We can't just let people live their lives, we need to DEMONIZE them for daring to think or speak or act differently than what is "normal". This is not a good world to pass down to your children.
The nurse administering it confirmed a few details that related to pre-existing conditions and risk factors. I don't care, I was just pointing out that every medical discussion does not occur behind closed doors.In the interest of this thread though you were getting your vaccine at the time meaning you were already willing assumedly by sitting down allowing someone to vaccinate you, the person administering your vaccine wasn't your boss either.
Which is why I made a point to say I understood you were saying that not every minute medical detail is just between you and another person, I get that but for this thread we're talking about someone's boss asking them in front of others if they were going to get the vaccine or not. That is not the same type of medical question that would be more apt to hear at the front desk of a medical office or whether the nurse giving you your shot was asking about pre-existing conditions. So in that way I understand what the PP you were discussing this with was getting at with respects to confidentiality between someone's boss and their medical information such that asking in front of others presents (or IMO does) an issue. There's a relationship there that means something different than the nurse asking you if you have pre-existing conditions which changes the dynamics of the information being asked or shared. It's also why I was talking about normally such information about medical stuff is kept to a "need to know" basis. If you were speaking more generally I apologize I was just trying to pick up with the conversation that was going on between you and the other poster which was discussing more this situation in this thread.The nurse administering it confirmed a few details that related to pre-existing conditions and risk factors. I don't care, I was just pointing out that every medical discussion does not occur behind closed doors.