Thanks everyone. I have been recieving a lot of encouragement from a lot of people. I am also a Microsoft Certified Trainer and a good friend of mine (my old boss) in Virginia Beach told me she could easily get me 2 classes a month at the training center she runs if I want to contract. Even better, she gave me a pass to the Microsoft TechEd conference in Orlando June 10-13 that she won after my company took mine away. They paid for it and seeing as I wouldn't be their employee anymore... She can't use the pass she won becuase she will be on her honeymoon with my best friend
They are getting married June 7.
So, I will have a week's worth of networking with a bunch of fellow geeks, then a vacation at Fort Wilderness. My severance is 9 week's pay (one week for each year with the company), I will apply for unemployment (and hopefully never have to get a check from the state), I have my resume out, I am meeting with a friend next week who is an IT headhunter...it will all work out.
Again, thanks for the kind words and wishes. Ya'll are the best.
I have a story to relate, and hopefully one that will let you know that this too will be something you look back on in a few years and realize, "It was tough, but I came out stronger because of it".
Almost 5 years (so let's see, November of probably 2003) ago, we had one of our annual Thanksgiving trips to the Fort planned. This was I believe probably the 4th one since we started in the late 90's, so it was something already that we all had looked forward to all year. My birthday was landing on Thanksgiving for the first time in 5 years (just like it will again this year!

), and we had plans at the Hoop Dee Doo. Also, Beth and I had just started dating, and we had only been together a little over a month.
Beth already had plans to go to Chicago, so she was only going for the Tuesday and Wednesday before Thanksgiving. We were all going up on Tuesday afternoon, which I was taking off from work. So showed up to work on Monday, had a good day at work, was finishing it off with a great game of ping pong (we had a ping pong table at work, had tournaments and everything...lol), and my boss/friend who got me the job says he needs to see me after the game. So I got a little bit worried, thinking I had gotten in trouble or something.
So this is about 6 PM on Monday, my boss/friend tells me that they're having layoffs, and I'm one of them. I turn out to be the only one in my department layed off, in which I find the reason out later, because I at the time was the only single one without a family so they thought it would be "easier" on me. Could have sued for that, but just not that type of person.
So all day I had been looking forward to going home on Monday, only I didn't realize the ride home would be so crappy. Called everyone and told them what happened, people were talking about cancelling Disney, but I just said we still had to go, to at least keep it normal.
So we left the next day Tuesday, for our trip we had all looked so much forward to for a year, although all I could think about was that I had just got layed off. I had finally fought myself back from the last time I was layed off, back in 2001, only a few years earlier. That had been a very rough time, and I did not want to go through it again.
Somehow I was able to enjoy the trip, and you will be able to as well. I was only 26 the first time I was layed off, 29 the second time. After spending most of the first 5 years of my career on a rocket, to have two crashes in such a short time afterwards was rough.
I remember that was one of the coldest winters I've ever had in Disney, it was freezing at night. This was also about a year before they really started saying you had to have covered fire pits, so let's just say me, a roaring fire pit, a couple blankets, a radio (in which I listened to "After Dark", that sci-fi alien show that's on late night on AM, listened to it every single night for hours, except on Friday when I listened to 2 hours of live high school sports updates...lol).
Oh, and my friends Bacardi and Budweiser visited quite often as well..
I did ruin the one night we had at the Hoop-Dee-Doo because it was my birthday and they kept on trying to single me out and I just wasn't in the mood, always really regretted that. Which is why I hope this year I can make up for it...lol
In the end, it turned out to be a good trip. To be honest, it took my mind a lot more off of things then had I been at home. Don't expect the impossible, but just for a while escape to that fantasy world and you'll end up having a good trip, I promise!!