First off, thanks to all for your replies and discussions. Also, thanks to Bicker for your kind replies to me and others. No worries
To clear up some confusion, the removal of gratuity from the DDP is DISNEY'S stance and demand. The server's union has fought this but from all accounts have lost on this front. As others have logically reasoned, no server wants to lose the automatic 18% gratuity. Do know that the servers union 2 years ago secured the increase in auto grat for DDP from 15% to 18%. They DO NOT want to lose this.
This matter is urgent (to recap as requested) because Disney/union contract negotiations are wrapping up and this issue is on the table. The urgency is for more guests to make their voice heard, either directly or indirectly. If the results of this poll are true (admittedly a very very small sample of all Disney guests), then this proposed change in DDP seems foolish for the company as well as the guest, a lose-lose situation. That is just my take however and others will have their own interpretation.
The post that DDE would for the first time be charged auto grat 18% is correct from what I've heard as well, a tidbit I forgot to mention.
It seems to me that the average DDP guest and servers should be on the same page here. Servers dont want to lose the auto grat, just as guests do not want to now pay the entire tip OOP. Guests do not want to lose the ease of checkout (swipe the card), nor do the servers (who prefer to swipe one card and be done, rather than get bogged down swiping a second card for a tip).
One final thought, I am perplexed by posters who say they have no problem paying the tip OOP, as they generally leave extra anyway. Huh??? There is a difference in leaving an extra $5 on top of the $20 gratuity Disney paid for you; now you would be paying the tip 100%, or $25.
I have no new info to give this evening but will update this week.