thanks folks for help, the loony husband has been arrested and i think bail is set at 100,000 dollars but as no one he knows has that kind of cash i think he is still in custody, she is in hiding has taken everything she owns but might have to stay till it goes to court, her dad desparately wants her home , i have given them the embassy info and we have to wait to see what happens now, apparently this has been going for a long time and she was too afraid to tell anyone, and for the last week it has been tense, her dad kept telling her to just leave but she wanted to be brave and face him!! and now he went crazy and attacked her with a hammer, she managed to escape, phoned cops and got to hospital, her friend rescued her and he is in custody, so its just a waiting game. her dad is frantic, and as he has never been out of the country he wouldnt know what to do, by good fortune he has a new passport, so we just have to wait by my dh will go if needed . its quite scary, its the back of beyond of maryland and we have just got to wait.