mykidsintow
<font color=red>Dogs Like Teacups Too
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- Feb 3, 2008
Maybe I should do a trip report on this one just for the freakin drama of it all.....
Everything was going as well as can be, given current circumstances, yesterday. About 1am I thought of something I had meant to grab for Julias chair and I could not find it. I asked *him* to help. He was fussing and snapping and throwing things. He would not tell me what I had missed (I knew I had obviously missed something). We went to bed with the plan to get up at 7am and leave by 8.
I didn't set an alarm... no hurry to a hotel, ya kno? So at 8am I woke and just laid in the silence. 8:30 *he* walks in. He sits on the bed (he has been sleeping in the spare bedroom for weeks)
"I am not sure I am going".
"EXCUSE ME?"
"I need to tell you something... XXXX ("the other one", "The surrogate" "The *(*&%", call *her* what you will) had a miscarriage yesterday."
"And? you actually believe that?"
"Yes I believe her. She has never lied to me. I knew she was pregnant all along I have been lying to you. She has the medical records to prove the pregnancy, the hormone levels, the Rh injection paperwork, everything"
"Ok.... do whatever the **** you want to do, but you are telling the kids"
So he decided to FLY to her to spend 3 days and THEN fly to meet *us* at Disney. Pretty freakin nuts I am allowing this, huh? But the kids were crying, screaming about him not going and he doesn't love them and he lies, blah blah blah. Frankly I didn't want him at home this week with us gone because I don't trust him. Not a thing he says. I don't want him there without me around to supervise. I did have him write a letter stating I was in no way keeping him from the vacation with his children and I was in NO way responsible for the cost of his trip.
So, the camels back has broken. He has played with my head and emotions for the last 6 weeks, knowingly lied to me flat out.... and I am done. I don't really give a rats behind if she was pregnant, is pregnant, or if they are dead. At this point regardless of the actual facts, he is a liar in some form or fashion and doesn't bat an eye doing it. They deserve each other. Karma has gotten them apparently.
So this trip you ask? Well the kids and I are in Florida. We will arrive at Disney tomorrow. We WILL have an enjoyable week, we WILL have an awsome time. Why? Because they deserve it. My life has gone down the tubes in 2 months time and theirs is about to and they have no clue its even coming.....
I have an appt with an attorney on Tuesday when I return. My mom is coming down to go with me and I plan to tell them to clean him out.... get everything he can. Gloves are on, its over and by dingy he is going down.
So, there you have it...... the first installment of my "trip report". Wonder if the Dis has ever seen such a trip?!
Honestly I will keep you guys updated and anyone who wishes to venture around, but I am not going over the TRs because I don't know the ppl regularly reading over there.
As always thanks for letting me vent!
Everything was going as well as can be, given current circumstances, yesterday. About 1am I thought of something I had meant to grab for Julias chair and I could not find it. I asked *him* to help. He was fussing and snapping and throwing things. He would not tell me what I had missed (I knew I had obviously missed something). We went to bed with the plan to get up at 7am and leave by 8.
I didn't set an alarm... no hurry to a hotel, ya kno? So at 8am I woke and just laid in the silence. 8:30 *he* walks in. He sits on the bed (he has been sleeping in the spare bedroom for weeks)
"I am not sure I am going".
"EXCUSE ME?"
"I need to tell you something... XXXX ("the other one", "The surrogate" "The *(*&%", call *her* what you will) had a miscarriage yesterday."
"And? you actually believe that?"
"Yes I believe her. She has never lied to me. I knew she was pregnant all along I have been lying to you. She has the medical records to prove the pregnancy, the hormone levels, the Rh injection paperwork, everything"
"Ok.... do whatever the **** you want to do, but you are telling the kids"
So he decided to FLY to her to spend 3 days and THEN fly to meet *us* at Disney. Pretty freakin nuts I am allowing this, huh? But the kids were crying, screaming about him not going and he doesn't love them and he lies, blah blah blah. Frankly I didn't want him at home this week with us gone because I don't trust him. Not a thing he says. I don't want him there without me around to supervise. I did have him write a letter stating I was in no way keeping him from the vacation with his children and I was in NO way responsible for the cost of his trip.
So, the camels back has broken. He has played with my head and emotions for the last 6 weeks, knowingly lied to me flat out.... and I am done. I don't really give a rats behind if she was pregnant, is pregnant, or if they are dead. At this point regardless of the actual facts, he is a liar in some form or fashion and doesn't bat an eye doing it. They deserve each other. Karma has gotten them apparently.
So this trip you ask? Well the kids and I are in Florida. We will arrive at Disney tomorrow. We WILL have an enjoyable week, we WILL have an awsome time. Why? Because they deserve it. My life has gone down the tubes in 2 months time and theirs is about to and they have no clue its even coming.....
I have an appt with an attorney on Tuesday when I return. My mom is coming down to go with me and I plan to tell them to clean him out.... get everything he can. Gloves are on, its over and by dingy he is going down.
So, there you have it...... the first installment of my "trip report". Wonder if the Dis has ever seen such a trip?!
Honestly I will keep you guys updated and anyone who wishes to venture around, but I am not going over the TRs because I don't know the ppl regularly reading over there.As always thanks for letting me vent!
My heart goes out to you and the kids 100%.
