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Our cat has had many, many urinary blockages in his lifetime. Today he was fully blocked again, and I've never seen him like this before. He was lethargic to the point of being unable to stand up in the litterbox. I rushed him to our vet to get unblocked, and I finally made the decision to have the surgery done on him to widen his urinary tract opening. If his bloodwork goes OK, he will have the surgery done today. If his kidney function looks compromised (and it might, due to the blockage), then they have to unblock him and wait at least a day to do the surgery. I am waiting to hear back from our vet now.
Can you please send him some good thoughts today? He is almost 10 years-old, and he's had so many health problems in his lifetime. I'm so worried that he'll have to stay at the vet for so many days and that he will think that we abandoned him
I hope that I'm doing the right thing having the surgery done. We've agonized over this for so long, due to not wanting to mess him up further. He could have died from this blockage, though, and I just can't risk waiting until he's even older and then having to have the surgery done as an emergency (that he might not survive) 
Our cat has had many, many urinary blockages in his lifetime. Today he was fully blocked again, and I've never seen him like this before. He was lethargic to the point of being unable to stand up in the litterbox. I rushed him to our vet to get unblocked, and I finally made the decision to have the surgery done on him to widen his urinary tract opening. If his bloodwork goes OK, he will have the surgery done today. If his kidney function looks compromised (and it might, due to the blockage), then they have to unblock him and wait at least a day to do the surgery. I am waiting to hear back from our vet now.
Can you please send him some good thoughts today? He is almost 10 years-old, and he's had so many health problems in his lifetime. I'm so worried that he'll have to stay at the vet for so many days and that he will think that we abandoned him
I hope that I'm doing the right thing having the surgery done. We've agonized over this for so long, due to not wanting to mess him up further. He could have died from this blockage, though, and I just can't risk waiting until he's even older and then having to have the surgery done as an emergency (that he might not survive) 
Oh, Chrissy, he is in my thoughts. I hope everything works out ok for kitty!
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) Hope this helps. You might consider a new vet also.