My Temper-pedic was delivered exactly one hour ago. It was sitting in the delivery truck overnight so it's pretty firm right now. As it warms up in my bedroom it should soften a bit (I hope).
We got the Rhapsody. We went twice to the store and laid on all of them. We had narrowed down our choices to the Rhapsody, Deluxe, and sorry can't recall the 3rd model. It's funny, but my DH and I had been leaning towards the deluxe initially, but when we came back to the store for the second time, we both overwhelmingly preferred the Rhapsody.
You've got to lay down on all of the models...and definately take off your coats to test the beds. Makes a big difference. Any other questions I'm glad to help.