Today must be the day for medical issues.
I just heard from a friend (and former coworker) that the wife of a guy we worked with years ago has been hospitalized for the last month, has been declared brain-dead, and they are saying goodbyes and turning off life support today.
I am sooooo sad. When we met, he was a college intern assigned to work in our group, and he and she were dating. She was bubbly and just a lovely person, and they were talking about getting married but he was scared. I pointed out how many happily married people he knew (us included), and he did wind up asking her to marry him.
When they began talking about kids, he came and asked me what it was like. I told him (like I tell everyone) that is the hardest and best thing I've ever done, there is nothing as rewarding in the world.
A few years ago he was showing me pictures of his two little ones, I think they're each a couple of years younger than my two. I am sick at the thought of them being so young and losing their mother.
And my poor friend, losing his partner. They really were such a good team.