yeah....someone won't entertain the idea but I'm guessing it may, as they say, come in handy.
So, *when* the time comes... Here's how you can help ease them through the decision making process. First of all, remember that for most folks, that first time using a personal mobility device (or
ECV as Disney calls them) can be kinda traumatic. They will go through something very similar to a grieving process; there may be (most likely will be) tears and recrimination and guilt and all sorts of emotion. That's OK, and is to be expected. They are simply adjusting to a new reality - one that none of us here wants, but most of us have had to face in one form or another.
Once they are calmer, and can really absorb what you are talking about, just remind them that using the ECV is no different than using a tool to get a job done! Just as you wouldn't hesitate to pick up a calculator to do a math problem, or grab a hammer to pound a nail, the ECV is simply a tool that lets you accomplish a task.
Remind them that not only can they "park and walk" if they want to, but that they don't have to sit on it for pictures, or meet n greets (as long as they can stand up) and that if they use it, *you* will be the one who has to keep up with *them*!
Additionally, their overall vacation probably just got better, simply because they won't arrive back at the hotel every night exhausted and in pain... and will get up in the morning, ready to go, wondering why all you bipedals can't get it together!
Last but not least, let them know this: That ECV, with them on it? It's a total non-event at Disney World. Trust me, no one will be paying attention to them; they are all too busy posting pictures to Instagram and taking selfies and bragging on Facebook about how wonderful their vacation is (and trying to make all their friends at home jealous LOL) And that old excuse of "what if someone we know *SEES* me!" is just that - you will have a better chance of winning the lottery AND getting struck by lightning at the same time than you will of actually bumping into someone you know from home at Disney World (unless you are traveling together). Using the ECV at Disney World isn't a permanent acknowledgement of a life-ending disability; it simply means that they need a bit of help with the (on average) 3 to 10 miles *per day* that the average Guest at Disney will walk. That's it. That's all.
Good Luck!
