Ok,my brain hurts after reading all that.
I'll throw my two cents in.
I feel the resort category, or on site vs off site, is, and should be, separate from park admission. If the same amount is paid to get into the parks then everyone should have the same perks. Everyone should have access to FP + with the same number of FP's they can reserve beforehand.
I, for one, will be sorely disappointed if Disney starts charging for perks like extra FP's a la Universal and their FOTL pass. I'm sorry, I find it smarmy and an example of disgusting materialistic narcisssim. Sorry people, you're all at a theme park. Not a single one of you is better than anyone else. Everyone should have the same access to the parks. That is why I loved legacy FP so much. Everyone was eligible for it. It didn't completely cut out lines but it drastically reduced them.
As far as the on site/off site debate good god people. Give it a rest. Some people like to stay off site, some like on site. Some people like the DP, some don't. Some like the buses, some don't. For me personally, I like staying on site because I want it to look like Mickey threw up in my room otherwise I don't feel like I am actually at Disney World when I am in my room. I want my room to match the location. I think the DP is a rip off. I would never eat nearly that much food. If they had some sort of dining plan that included only dinners or something like that I might be interested and just go to the grocery store and put food in the fridge for the other meals. As far as the buses are concerned I like them. They aren't perfect, it's true. But I have always found them very convenient in my meager experience and I like the convenience of not having to drive everywhere.
But that's just me. YMMV.