Hello all... we are embarking on our 2nd trip to WDW in mid May (DS 6, DD 4 + grandma & myself). I am a pretty clear cut type A planner but the changes since our last trip in 2012 are driving me a bit wacky! I am hoping that you Disney veterans can help a novice 
We are staying for 10 days this time, 8 day standard tickets (last year, kids just wanted to stay by the pool a couple of days and recharge). We have a split stay - Beach Club/Contemporary. Here are my major issues so far-
- ADRS.. my understanding is that without an ADR it's basically impossible to eat at a table service esp. for dinner. We didn't have that experience last time, but I'm hearing it's different now?
- How do you begin planning which parks to visit on which days (or do you work backwards from the restaurants you want to eat at)? If I have to book dinner at say MK, that means we're either at MK all day even if crowd levels are high, or we have to go back to the resort (unless tickets allow you to go in and out of the SAME park in one day)?
- Where are good resources for the Fastpass/Magic Bands? We did not have these last time and I'd like to do some research.
Overall I feel like there's more of a pro-tip thing needed for this trip than the last one... which was perfect! Feeling the pressure. I know I need to relax about this but I also would be comforted by knowing all the ins and outs
Thanks in advance for any help!!

We are staying for 10 days this time, 8 day standard tickets (last year, kids just wanted to stay by the pool a couple of days and recharge). We have a split stay - Beach Club/Contemporary. Here are my major issues so far-
- ADRS.. my understanding is that without an ADR it's basically impossible to eat at a table service esp. for dinner. We didn't have that experience last time, but I'm hearing it's different now?
- How do you begin planning which parks to visit on which days (or do you work backwards from the restaurants you want to eat at)? If I have to book dinner at say MK, that means we're either at MK all day even if crowd levels are high, or we have to go back to the resort (unless tickets allow you to go in and out of the SAME park in one day)?
- Where are good resources for the Fastpass/Magic Bands? We did not have these last time and I'd like to do some research.
Overall I feel like there's more of a pro-tip thing needed for this trip than the last one... which was perfect! Feeling the pressure. I know I need to relax about this but I also would be comforted by knowing all the ins and outs

Thanks in advance for any help!!

park attendance has picked up some, and you will need an ADR at many of the popular restaurants. Unless you're willing to either eat really early or really late. If you have some must do ADRs I'd book them.
