We eat late- I'm shooting for 6pm so it'll be closer to 7- so I'll put out some snacky-things around 4pm, but it's going to be appetizers-lite. Cheese (smoked gouda and Unexpected Cheddar from Trader Joe's) with crackers, onion dip and chips (BIG treat, only happens on T-giving and Christmas), hummus and cut up veggies, and probably tortilla chips and salsa. I miss the apps of my childhood (relish tray, stuffed eggs, dates stuffed with peanut butter and rolled in confectioner's sugar, celery stuffed with cream cheese/green olive) but nobody here would eat that except me...
Christmas is a different story. Christmas Eve is my new version of Seven Fishes- I'll make seafood chowder. Christmas Day is open grazing on apps/wings/nachos. Dinner is stupidly simple- frozen stuffed shells (from Sam's, with homemade sauce from my freezer), garlic bread, salad. Dessert will probably be ice cream sundaes.