I agree with the statement that an ostomy is our PERSONAL business and not that of any other human being , unless we chose to inform them of it. It should be a private thing, but it nolonger is. We are forced to divulge information to these total strangers and even show it to them, sometimes having to give samples of the contents. Why? For National Security. Trust me, I am no terrorist and the thought of being on a plane with one scares me enough that I will drop trough and show them what they want to see. Give them the contents (will save me from having to race to the bathroom right after) and do what I have to do to help ensure that the flights are safe. Do I like it? NO. Should I be treated like a cow going to slaughter, NO. Should I be treated with dignity, respect and given the proper privacy? HELL YES>
I work hard , voluntarily, daily to try to instill change in these policies. Not just the airports, but anywhere. I may be naive to believe that it is making any difference, but I have seen areas that it has, so I keep on, as do many who have the same desires as I do.
Like with anything, the more they hear it, the more they see it and the more it is shown to them, they are going to absorb it. Unfortunately, some jack((*& is going to attempt to put something in a bag and adhere it to their abdomen. They are going to attempt this, just as they have with baby bottles and formula. Hell, they took lighters away for the longest time, but allowed matches (which to me, is more dangerous than a lighter)........
Security is what security is........ but we , as Americans must still continue to fight for the dignity , respect, and overall compassion that any person deserves no matter if they have an ostomy, breast implant, prosthetic leg, titanium knees or anything else that has altered their body..... behind all the outer shell is a HUMAN BEING and we have always prided our country for a great deal more than we are giving the born citizens at this time.
so, those with ostomies or other prosthetics must be taken to the level of exposing very personal things when they really would rather not have to. It is 100% OUR business and no one else's unless we chose to show it or tell it...... but we are forced into a show and tell. We do what we must do. This is about ostomies, this all started because someone with one was publicly humiliated and then it was taken further and that person was shoved out into the masses with waste on them...... That is wrong. That is wrong in so many ways, it is indescribable. But, how are we going to change it? We have to speak up. We have to make sure that they hear it every single time they are faced with it so that they remember it. Make sure that it sinks in and that it comes to the surface when they see the next one....
May we , one day , see a change in this...........