I was how you were I started eating healthy and working out 1 year ago, I have since lost 40 lbs, I am 5 lbs short of my goal weight by my wedding in 5 months, however I am not sure I am going to lose that last 5lbs the way my frame has changed/rearranged itself. I would say go by inches or pants size I went from a 14 down to where I need a belt with a 6, which makes me a lot less conscious of worrying about that last 5 lbs, and I can see the changes of being more "muscular and toned" and not flabby. I am trying to change up my workouts to a more cardio base to see if I can actually lose it, but I'm not counting on anything, I know I am at a healthy weight right now, and my endurance went from not being able to run a lap without being winded to doing a 10 min mile(which isn't that great but it's a big improvement for me). I can't believe I actually stuck to my diet and exercise program, although I don't consider it that anymore, it's a lifestyle change I have made to make my overall health better and not just for a cosmetic reason(although that is a nice reward) All I can stay is stick with it and don't let the scale be the ultimate judge of how you feel or think you look. BMI is so overrated and unscientific, in all my exercise science classes we learned the formula but the professors always recommended using % fat as the best indicator for lean mass/fat mass because BMI takes none of that into account. Hope I could help some, I have a background in exercise science and I am an athletic trainer and finally decided to practice what I preach without doing any kind of miracle workout or diet and my DF has stuck with me and also lost 70 lbs as well. If you would have any questions feel free to ask.