I was raised to do for others, especially at the holidays. It was payback. For many years, I didn't know that if it had not been for a man that I knew as "Papa Nolan" that we would have lost our house and I certainly would not have had Christmas one year when my dad's company was on strike. But, I knew that every year after that hard year, that we donated my gently used toys to the firefighters, who refurbished those toys and gave them to the needy kids. As I grew older, we started working the "angel trees". I enjoyed that quite a bit.
Over the past few years, I have found families that were in need that I met through my work in a pediatric medical office. This year, I found
Wild Santa. Wild Santa supports the Toys for Tots organization. We spent quite a good bit of money on the charity. The kids only get two toys and a stocking stuffer through the TFT, but I think that every kid deserves more than that. We have plans to continue supporting Wild Santa next year too.
Well, we thought we were done. Gabby's mom's personal assistant/maid/health care assistant is a lovely woman named Cal. Cal's daughter and her family live in GA....not that far away from us, but quite far away from Ms. Cal, who lives in FL. The family has had a ROUGH year. The dad, Rod, had worked in a hospital assisting in surgeries, but became ill earlier this year. The illness has wrecked his nervous system. He lost his job and can no longer drive himself. Precia, Cal's daughter, was working as a CNA in a wound care specialist office, but she lost her job last Monday because they got tired of her missing work because she has to take her husband to the doctor so often. They lost their home 2 months ago. All 4 of them live in the basement of a friend from church's home. There are two girls, 14 and 5. The 14 year old is a genius, literally, she has a full ride scholarship already to Duke University when she gets through with high school. The 5 year old is very tall for her age, she looks 10, but talks like she is 40. lol This family was looking at no Christmas what-so-ever. When Pati told us Gabby about the situation, we both agreed that we wanted to and needed to pitch in!
So, in a whirlwind of shopping, we took to the mall and three Walmarts between 8pm and 6am Friday night/Saturday morning. We slept 4 hours and got up to start wrapping. We finished wrapping at 3pm, which was just in time for us to be able to get showers and be able to meet with them to give them their gifts. I think we spoiled them well. The mom asked only for a coat. The dad wanted a Trac phone and some minutes. The kids asked for nothing other than clothes. We did more than clothes. Each child has a good Christmas wrapped and ready for opening on Monday! I never knew so much about Dora the Explorer and the Password Journal before in my life, but we got the goodies. I am glad to know that we helped not only save Christmas, but we also saved a bit of hope for these people. Cal said that the family as a whole was so excited that they had a hard time going to sleep Saturday night.
One side note: I have to give thanks to my local
Disney Store. When they found out who all the clothes and toys were for, they gave me an additional 15% discount! I love my TDS!
Happy holidays to all! I encourage everyone with kids to foster a sense of need for giving to the less fortunate this time of year. You never know when it could be you that might be on the receiving end. Cal's daughter's family is proof that one little setback can take it all away. 10 months of illness took them from solid upper middle class to homeless and bankrupt......it's a tough reality. Maggie