Jackie, I love your outlook. While we cannot afford it every year(but there is MUCH hope for the future!!), and I am okay with that, we were affording a quick trip there on a strict budget every year and a half for a while. Make a Wish fueled that!! The 2 trips after MAW were so tightly budgeted, and I am totally okay with that, but we are wanting a little more now!!

Nothing off the top-but we used to only eat out 1-2 times per trip-max. And it usually was a character meal and then something out of the blue on a whim. This past trip was an exception and our next trip there will be in between this past one and the last 2.
Enjoy the time with your kids. Enjoy every moment. Make it the best quality time you can. It is SO easy to get sidetracked by LIFE that we can miss the little things. Like for me, the computer is a sidetrack. For DH it is TV. I really have to watch my time on it b/c i can literally ignore the kids and not flinch when on it

-true, embarrassing ,but true! I should know better too. I almost lost one. I used to just stare at her and everything she did and be so thankful. Now when she hums the same tune(verse, even) ALL day-I beg her to change the tune!! It kind of grates on the nerves after a while. But I am GLAD she is here to hum. She has a happy heart. same with DD8, although we never had the unfortunate skirt with death with her-THANK YOU JESUS!!!- I find myself getting so sidetracked when she is talking this LONG story to me and I get lost in it-not in a good way.
It was funny you mention all that b/c my cousin, whom I grew up with, is so focused and organized, she has to make sure she pays attention to her kids and doesn't ignore them. She has to TRY at it. It is against her grain. I am the opposite, which can be just as bad-esp for a homeschooler-I just wanna play-but what I wanna play!!- and I can get sooo sidetracked so easily. I am not a naturally organised person like she is. It is against my grain! Homeschooling has forced me into organization!!! It is an out of my box situation!!
We JUST had that conversation a few days ago.
Got sidetracked

, but take it from a mom whose child has skirted death-take every moment you have and just love them and teach them and play with them and watch them play(That is my favorite thing). Glue it all in your memory. Life is fast and it can be too short-TRUST me, i have seen too much of that. There is no turning back. I don't know your faith situation, but whatever it is, I suggest you just pray over them-say a little prayer by them when they are sleeping- for a long ,fulfilling, lovely life on this earth and that they can overcome , with grace, any situation that faces them. My best friends dad died about 2 years ago and one thing her sister said in the eulogy was that her dad couldn't give much financially, but he gave them one thing that could never be forgotten-he prayed by/over them nightly, till they left thier home. She talked about her appreciation for it and that her life would probably not be as good as it was without all those prayers. So, as I was already doing this, and even my DH,we have continued it, and always will, till they leave the nest.
getting really nostalgic here. It is all fresh still no matter what time has gone by. Just love them.
Lori