Totally OT, slightly MIA...

[disneybridetobe]

I just had to vent.. somewhere..somehow. I HATE my job! Ughh! There is someone in my office who is completely miserable to me and it's really upsetting! I didn't do anything to this person, I'm friendly and outgoing, so I don't get it! I was sick a day last week, but come on.. it's TUESDAY. This person barely says hello to me! Ughh! I feel like I'm under a microscope!
I'm just waiting for another position to open up within the organization, and I am SO applying for it. (Preferably a 9 month one, but thats a whole other point)


Sorry to be a pain.. I just had to vent, and everyone on this board is awesome and supportive, so I thought...what they hey.. I'll vent


(edited to add that I'm sorry I've been MIA.. I've just been busy...I miss you guys!!!)

 

[JandJ]

Vent away! It seems so unfair when all you want to do is go to work each day and do your best and enjoy it as much as possible, but someone is interfering with that. We've all been there! I'm sorry and I hope things get better.

 

[luvsmickey]

I completely understand!!! Wish I had vented that way the other day instead of crying like a baby in a total breakdown to my DF. (More than just work was the reason for the total breakdown) But, I am not totaly upset that I'm home with Broncitis! And don't worry! You don't have to like the people you work with, and more than likely they won't be a part of your life for very long and you can forget all about them in the years to come!

 

[sarah_n_brian2006]

Right there with you on the hate my job situation thing. But everything will get better. Just do not work for your DMIL, mine hasn't paid me in 1 month!!!! But we're not going there. But now my DH owns it and everything looks so much brighter!!

 

[calanniebu]

vent away!!! I'm sure we have all been there at one point or another. I took a new job within my company about 3 weeks ago, and the problems from my old position seem to have followed me! I will admit though, since I'm no longer in a customer facing position, I have had more time to get actual work done vs. being in customer meetings all day ... which in turn leads to less stress!
hugs for you! and just think ... at the end of the day you get to go home to your hubby and that makes everything worth it!

 

[JessHooper]

I just had to vent.. somewhere..somehow. I HATE my job! Ughh! There is someone in my office who is completely miserable to me and it's really upsetting! I didn't do anything to this person, I'm friendly and outgoing, so I don't get it! I was sick a day last week, but come on.. it's TUESDAY. This person barely says hello to me! Ughh! I feel like I'm under a microscope!
I'm just waiting for another position to open up within the organization, and I am SO applying for it. (Preferably a 9 month one, but thats a whole other point)


Sorry to be a pain.. I just had to vent, and everyone on this board is awesome and supportive, so I thought...what they hey.. I'll vent


(edited to add that I'm sorry I've been MIA.. I've just been busy...I miss you guys!!!)

Believe me!!!!!!!!!!!! I know how you feel!!!!!!!!!! My company doesn't know I exist unless they want something done. They know how much I want to move up in my company so they know I'll do anything I can to do it. I appied for a promotion and they said that I was fully qualified but since my attitude wasn't something they liked, they wouldn't promote. So I'm leaving my company. I decided that if I cry everyday after I leave my work because I'm so unhappy, that it was time to leave. I'm actually taking a pretty steep pay cut to leave. But happiness is worth more to me than any amount of money. Hope this helps.

 

[ItGirl753]

Just had to add my 2 cents! I am a teacher. This year we have two brand-new teachers in my grade level and they are both.....older. I do not know what they have been doing for the last.....umm.....25 years, but it's not teaching! They do not know what they are doing and now I am expected to teach them the ropes, staying after, and being available all the time for what? They do not want my help! They give me an attitude, big time!!! I do not need to waste my personal time TRYING to help someone who doesn't want my help!!! And it is not my responsibility. Here we are, one month into the school year, and I am MISERABLE!!!!! I do not get along with them at all! There is a new K teacher in my hall who is young, and planning her wedding, and we get along great!!! Why couldn't WE be working together!??!

Thanks. Just had to vent too. My BF has been right to leave that school these past few years, and I haven't listened. Now it seems worse than ever. Plus I teach in the inner city. It is definitely not a dream job, and very difficult when you don't have friends. Worse when you have enemies across the hall.

 

[dreams91]

So I'm leaving my company. I decided that if I cry everyday after I leave my work because I'm so unhappy, that it was time to leave. I'm actually taking a pretty steep pay cut to leave. But happiness is worth more to me than any amount of money. Hope this helps.

I am doing the same thing. My health is worth more than the $$ I was making. I'm going into a whole different field and boy is that scary, but I'll make it work!

 

[sefny]

oh my! i've been feeling this for the past few weeks. there are a few people who are going out of their way to make me miserable and unfortunately it's working!

i've been spending more and more time reading this board to keep my mind off things. sigh.

hang in there!

 

[PirateKitty]

So glad to hear I'm not alone! I've tried to quit my company twice in the past two years, and each time they keep giving me raises, a different position, and a new office. Each time I agree to stay, I always end up questioning why I did. My job is boring. I'm overpaid, undervalued, and get absolutely no respect from my boss. I'm thinking its time to start job hunting...

 

[disneygirl725]

By no means are you alone.

I'm an auditor and we work in teams. Well half my team hates me. It's been really bad since I got promoted. They don't talk to me, they think Disney is babyish. Well, its only two of them that are really bad.

A woman refuses to speak to me, even if I say hello she ignores me. And a man just hates me. He sent me a nasty inappropriate e-mail yesterday. Idiot. As an auditor, you should know better to put it in writing. I forwarded it to 2 managers on my team in another city who I am close with (and who could indirectly influence the outcome) for help on what to do.

 

[DisneyFairy19]

VENT away... Thats what us Dis'ers are here for

 

[ItGirl753]

I just wanted to say welcome sefny!

I'm just trying to make it through the week, one day at a time! We are going away this weekend for Columbus Day (long weekend). I'm coming down with a cold and still need to do laundry and pack!!!

 

[sefny]

I just wanted to say welcome sefny!

Thanks for the welcome! I've been reading this board for a little while but I've been too swamped with work drama lately to make a formal introduction. I'll have to do that tonight!