Totally O/T - but would like some prayers... RESULTS NEWS!!

[scampbunny]

NEWS ADDED AT END...........

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i feel bad comin on and asking for prayers, but i just think (as one supermarket unfortunately says) every little helps....

my mom had breast cancer & a masectomy in 2002, and was declare cancer free in 2007, then a few months back they found that she had malignant melanoma when she had a routine mole removed, and then had further skin removed just to make sure.... which they then said was clear (although had to have further checks...)

well, she had to have a bone scan the other week, as shes had probs with her left foot, and a few pains in her back, but they wanted to check for arthritus, as havin chemo can lead to arthritus & brittle bones.... well, she went for the results yesterday, and did worry about the news as she was requested to go to the breast cancer clinic to get them, and is now rushed for a ctc scan today as they have found 'hot spots' on her spine and her right foot (not the one that was hurting ?!?!?!). she asked if they cud poss be signs of arthritus, but the consultant said 'id like to tell u that........ but i can't'.

she has to wait til next weds for the results of this scan, but obviously its not looking good with her history. im in shock tbf, and talkin with mom can hear how she is - how anyone wud be, and so need as much prayers as possible, that maybe these hot spots are something else, although there have been no ideas of what it can be other than cancer. luckily my aunt is going with her today, and guess will go to the results too - but this is the worst time, as dh is away from sunday in japan, so when i get the news, it will be just me & the boys..........

pls pls pls anything u can do wud be appreciated, as with dads condition (he is disabled, and cant do very much for himself - mom is his full time carer) and state of mind being so fragile (hes very down with feeling so useless and basically says he is a waste of space *** he cant do anythin), and mom saying shes not sure how she can cope with anymore, and now this, i seriously worry for my parents, that they are gonna find it hard to find the strength to get thru this - they have the family support, but in their minds i think they are starting to give up............

not really sure what else i can do - feel so helpless......

not even thinking about disney is cheering me up....
thanks for reading & sorry if this is the wrong place, but hope its ok

 

[thelittlemermaid83]

Awww hun, sending you lots of and

 

[TheBunnyBear]

Awwww..... I'm sending you lots of good thoughts and I'll keep your mum in my prayers. I had a scare in the past and I know how tough the waiting period can be... But I am sure that she'll be ok.

 

[Sinead]

So sorry that your family is going through such a tough time at the moment ~ I'll pray for your mum.

 

[Booknut]

I will pray very hard for your mum and for you and your family, I hope the news is hopeful

 

[ema74]

So sorry your family is going through very difficult time. Hope and pray for your mum, hope the results aren't bad.

 

[Dianetigger]

Sending you lots and lots of hugs and hope that everything will be okay for your parents.

 

[poppyolivia]

What an absolutely sad time for you all, my thoughts are with you xxx

 

[Anne64]

What a worrying time for you - sending you lots of and

Remember to look after yourself as well as everyone else

 

[sam_rogers]

sending you lots of

 

[sjaakie]

As I’m walking in breastcancershoes myself I will burn an extra candle tonight fore your mother and send prayers to our Mother Mary .

 

[ruthiebabie]

I too am a cancer survivor - I will keep your Mum in my thoughts xxx

 

[joolz1910]

Oh Nikki, what a stressful time for you. Your poor mum. I know what it's like to worry when parents are very ill. You are in my thoughts.

 

[A Small World]

Sending you lots of and hope everything is OK

 

[Cyrano]

Thoughts for you all Nikki

 

[Mrs Stonfiesta]

You are in my toughts, sending you some

 

[Jeccaboos]

Having a mum who is a breast cancer survivor, I know how worrying this must be for you all.

I will pray for your mum - take care of yourself

 

[mummyal]

Thinking of all of you Nikki and hope everything will be okay

 

[scampbunny]

thank u all so very much.
u have all touched my by ur wishes.

my mum has had her scan now - they focused on her spine, so i guess the thinking is, whatever that is, the one in the foot is the same..... of course we are all hoping it is just arthritis, but its the usual 'rush u into scans' that make u think if its a rush, they must be concerned.

will keep u posted, and of course, as just realised tomorro is breast cancer support day, i will be wearing something pink for that....

thank u all again, its just great to know i can get such support here

 

[mommy2ash]

i am so sorry you and your family are going through this. i really hope it turns out to be something else. i will keep you all in my prayers/ big hugs to you