What an absurd comment?!

If you want pancakes - order pancakes. Ordering special things off a menu is NOT limited to those with a food allergy.
Sorry, but I OWN two restaurants. We make special requests all the time. But no one dictates to other customers what they can and cannot have. If a kid wants pancakes let them order pancakes. It is not your responsibility to police other peoples plates.
If your local Johnny Rockets doesn't serve breakfast, you can still order a fried egg, side of bacon and toast. They don't have it on the menu that you can order each as a side.
OK- maybe I should have been more specific. I was specifically responding to a restaurant with a set menu. They serve the exact same thing to every table family style. It is nothing like going to Panera bread where they are making a fresh individual meal and can swap out breads or ingredients as they are all sitting right there. The disney buffets and family style places have certain foods in the back that they give to people who can't eat what is on the menu. If it started to become common for everybody who felt like it to ask for the allergy pancakes for free, they would either stop serving them or start charging for them. They are not cost effective so they aren't going to become part of the meal.
In a case like this, I would appreciate people not ordering special foods if they don't need to. If my son eats ANYTHING on their regular menu it may kill him. Not just he felt more like waffles than eggs that morning, it's a choice between paying $40 to take a kid to a place where he can't eat, or having him eat something that sends him to the ER because everybody thinks they should get a special order from the chefs.
I am not trying to dictate whether or not anybody is allowed to eat waffles, I am asking for some common sense and common courtesy. Please do not encourage people to do something that could set off an effect that could actually cost my son his life. I can't think of any way that is unreasonable.
I am not exaggerating when I say it is the only place my son can go out to eat. It would be really sad to lose that because people want to feel like if anybody gets a special item they need it too.
I find it absurd that anybody would respond with anything but understanding to being asked not to encourage everybody and their brother to order special items in places where there is a set menu, if it means making others completely excluded from the experience in the future.
ETA: If somebody came to this board looking for tips on how the get the best room and somebody's response was to get the handicapped rooms at X resort because they are bigger... and somebody who NEEDS that accommodation asked to please not suggest that to people out of consideration, I highly doubt you would say it was absurd because EVERYBODY should be able to get that big room if they want it.
Similarly, you don't tell somebody who is blind that if they get to bring a service dog, everybody should bring a dog and lie that they are service dogs so they don't have to board their pets, or tell everybody that we should all lie about our children's to get GAC's because we are all just as entitled to special treatment.
Allergies are an actual disability. The sad part is that it is unfortunately one that Disney does not legally have to cater to, so if the off menu items and special orders get out of hand, they will stop doing it. It is a disability that relies on other people having compassion rather than being self-centered. Does that make what I'm saying make more sense?