We just did our first holiday trip, and I'd rank them: WL, GF, and AKL. If you don't make time to go to AKL, Beach Club/Yacht Club gets the honorable mention. And Swan/Dolphin is really pretty, too.
We made time to visit all deluxe resorts to see their decor this year, and it was one of my favorite things. The Poly was the only one we thought was lacking.
For activities, Holiday Storytellers around the world were wonderful! The CP was nice and I'm glad we did it once, but it isn't a must do for us if we ever go again during the holiday season.