My shy one loved: Dumbo, circus train, and small world. Hated all things dark until age 4.
My wild and tall one loved (at 3 1/2): BTMRR, Go Gaget Coaster, Astro Orbiter, Tea cups.
They both loved Buzz and so did the grown ups. I think that is the best question. Which ones did adults and children both really enjoy. Those would be first on my list. For us it's Buzz, Peter Pan, Splash Mountain, Jungle cruise, Tiki Room (yes, we're weird). All of these we can do together and all have fun. Dumbo is my least favorite. I am always hoping it breaks down. Such a time drain to go around in circles. I guess until they are older we are stuck.