To my friends.. since some have asked and I'm sure others will in Sept.

MeanLaureen

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Things will be a lot different for me when I go to WDW for the pin event and I know I will be facing a lot of questions from people who haven't seen me in a while. I figured I would fill you guys in now (to save me from sounding like a broken record..lol)

When you see me in September I will be walking with a cane or possibly be in a wheelchair. Some of you know that I have been battling a rare disease for over 2 yrs now. It's called Adult Onset Stills Disease. It's very rare and only affects .000006% of the population. It normally targets people in their late 20's, early 30's and is an equal opportunity illness and doesn't favor men or women. For some people AOSD flares up and then after about 6 months of therapy of one kind or another, it goes into remission. Some people are unfortunate enough to have the long term chronic version that doesn't respond to treatment and does a lot of destruction. I'm one of those people.

AOSD is an autoimmune disease in the family of Rhuematoid Arthritis and Lupus. It is not known how people get this disease and not much is known about it because of the lack of research done. Basically what happens is your immune system gets out of whack and thinks that your joints are infections and attacks them. It can get to the point where it will destroy your joints. It also affects the lining of your heart, your lungs, your liver and your spleen. A couple of times a day my temperature will rise quickly to about 102 degrees or higher and then an hour or so later it will drop as fast as it came. Stills is not fatal to everyone, but it can kill people. We just lost a member of our support group last week to it. :( As a side effect to AOSD I have developed Fibromyalgia and due to pain from the AOSD and the Fibro, I have only had 2 nights of sleep in a year when I actually hit 4th stage and didn't wake up between 7-25 times that night. So needless to say, I'm tired.

I've tried all types of treatment options - prednisone and chemotherapy are the drugs I'm on now and seems like the side effects do as much damage as the illness. My best option is Remicade treatments but because of the high cost (thousands of dollars not covered by insurance) it's not an option right now.

So, I just wanted to let you guys know now what is going on with me now so I won't have to give Matt a headache from saying the same things over and over again ;)

oh, and the first person that says anything about my hair looking a lot thinner will get popped with my cane :teeth:
 
Lauri we will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Oh and Lauri I will never say anything about thinning hair to anyone... EVER!
 
Lauri,

I don't think anyone here on the boards would have anything but compassion for how you look, or what this terrible disease has done to your body. I wish I was going so that I could give you the biggest hug.

Take care. :)
 
Lauri,

Thank you for sharing this with us. You know that you have the love and support of all of us out here..your DIS family! And don't worry about the cane and chair and all...we're just glad you're going to be there!!!

{{{HUGS}}}
 

Lauri,

As someone who lives everyday with someone who has constant pain and health challenges...I wish you the very very best. I can't wait to meet you in September!!

Does gammaglobulin ever work as a treatment for this disease, since it has an autoimmune component?

Take care....
 
Lauri, sorry to read about your battle with AOSD. You might want to stop over to the DISabilities board & read about wheelchairs, ECVS, people staring &/or making rude comments, etc. Is an ECV an option for you? It would give you more independence among other things.
 
Oh, I forgot to say that one advantage of having a cane is being able to more easily knock an obnoxious doctor upside the head....
 
Lauri,

I hope that you have a great time at the pin event. The people that really know you, know that there is a beautiful person on the inside which is all that really counts. You beauty radiates in everything that you say and do. Thank you for all that you do. God Bless.

Just Plain Charles
 
We3 will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. We hope to make it to a few of the events. Please keep an eye out for me. I'm the dorky looking guy with Dumbo ears (according to my DW & DD --- gotta love them), with thinning hair (bald, according to my DW & DD ---- gotta love them again). If you want to get my attention just smack me with your cane, just be careful with the left knee (just had surgery)
 
Lauri, that being at WDW with your many friends will be a type of positive medicine...looking forward to being with you and Matthew.
 
Lauri,

My mother has fibromyalgia as well. I've seen first hand all the crap that comes with it. Especially the loss of sleep. My mother never sleeps. She told me that the last time she woke up without pain was one morning in 1987! She also has reynaulds,schogrens, and a slew of other auto-immune crap. Several doctors now say that basically if you have auto-immune problems then it opens up the doors for all this other crap and your body attacks itself. I have the early signs of fibro myself. I'm following in my mom's footsteps. I'm only 29 but each year I show the same signs my mother did at that age. Hopefully with more awareness will come more help and more insurance coverage. I had never heard of your disease before, but so many of these auto-immune diseases have been ignored until now. The doctors used to tell my mom that it was all in her head or they would say it was just arthritis. Hang in there and hopefully with enough pixie dust you will start to feel better.....or just knock everyone over the head with your cane..it might help ;)


Fiver
 
Lauri - thanks for sharing. Good thoughts and prayers are on their way.

The way I see it though is you'll have a much easier time carrying your pin bag around. Too, if we get bored Caroline (mylaughingplace) and you can have ECV races (as if!).

Will be glad to see you there!

Cyn
 
cane and chair and all....I know that Raul would love for you to have a wheelchair, so he could push it for you..(do these things come w/ seatbelts???)

I am so sorry to hear that you aren't doing so well, but we are so happy that you are coming anyway..we have such a good time w/ you and Matt, it wouldn't be the same w/o you.. and I agree w/ Suzanne, Disney can be a kind of cure all, and being w/ a bunch of people who love you can't hurt either..

Love You
 
Lauri,

I for one applaud you disclosing this fact. I think it is extremely cool that you are bringing a giant candy cane for all of us to snack on during the long hot days of the pin event. Just don't let Matthew hold it or else it is going to melt and be all gooey.

And don't worry about your hair, this gives you the perfect excuse to wear your Arizona Diamondbacks hat (as if anyone needs an excuse).

You are indeed a true friend to offer to carry all of our pin books in your lap while Matthew pushes you around. If we can get Matthew to push you fast enough, can I wear my rollerblades and have you pull me around the park? I figure if we get going fast enough and make a hard right turn (for all the NASCAR fans out there, cars do turn in "two" directions) we should be able to take out about 20 pin sharks by clotheslining them. Who knows, this could become an Olympic event. Do they have chairs with pontoons like a paddleboat? That would be way cool!

Jeff
 
Lauri,
Sounds like you and my DW have a lot in common, though not the same ailment. You'll be able to recognize her easily. If not in a wheelchair, (which she REALLY doesn't want to do) just look for a cane painted with every color of the rainbow in spotches.
She won't let me drive the wheelchair.....she can tell you why.
See you in 14 days!
 
Lauri,

I'll take you any way you come! Standing, sitting, laying down....

I'd volunteer to push you around, but then <b>I'd</b> have to lay down. Besides I've already volunteered to smack trouble out of the way of LisaPooh's ECV. :cool:

I'd let my DH push you around, but all the "Hey, Baldy!" comments might upset you. (You do remember what Malcolm looks like, right?)

I'd volunteer DS#1 to push you around, but frankly, you'd be safer with Raul driving. :eek:

Can't wait to see you and Matt.

Gentle Hugs from me and my gang.
 
Thanks for sharing, and I hope you get to enjoy your visit! I can push.. a wheelchair can't be that different from pushing one of those double strollers around the park.. :) Might want to install a front bumper, though. ;)

Ashley
 
Lauri, I find myself at a loss as to what to say (shut up everyone :p ) I cannot imagine having an illness that causes pain 24/7, nor what you must be going through. For you to keep the sense of humor and fun that we see on these boards everyday, to me, is amazing. I hope one day you will be lucky enough to benefit from all the research now going on in the scientific and medical community.

On another note........... if you get an ECV........ ya wanna race???:teeth:
 
I passed out at the comment Perndweler made about not having anything to say. :p Rare moments like this should be cherished.

I don't care what your hair looks like as long as its still red, and I personally will volunteer to push you around who better but a Florida boy already used to the heat.

I love you just as you are so get your butt and the top part as well down here I'll make you smile and laugh and make you forget all the bad.

And give me 5 minutes and I'll motorize the wheelchair thing in no time.
 
our darling board newlyweds. Thanks you so much Lauri for sharing your situation. Health is such a private and personal matter and it is not always easy to share with others no matter how close you feel.

Having fibro and CFS is awful enough. I have not heard of your primary affliction. But the combination has to be an exhausting challenge.

I'm sure you have had all kinds of medical advice but my ex is a Canadian and he sends me info on fibromyalgia all the time as they take it a great deal more seriously there than our "healers" do down here.

Maybe we can find 15 or 20 minutes to share. Nice to know there is a support group right here. I know of at least one other board member with fibro/CFS who has not yet responded to this post.

God Bless you. We all love you and Matthew {{{Matt/Lauri}}}. We can't wait to see you.
 












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