I like your comparisons on time. You are right ... although the flight is only 2 hours, they want you there 2 hours ahead of time, parking at the airport, driving there, etc. I can easily see 6-7 hours depending on the lines for check-in, delays, ME, etc. So it really isn't that much longer on the first day.
Also, I need to look at the driving as a part of the vacation as you said. My family drove to WDW when we were kids (from Reading, PA) ... I remember having some great family moments (license plate game, South of the Border signs) and also being bored to death!
I'll head over there next! Thanks!
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This is my main fear -- something going wrong with the SUV or getting into an accident...
I have always done regular maintenance on my cars and have been rewarded with long life spans. My first trip driving was in 2001 in a 1993 Pathfinder with 125,000 miles on it. Finally had to put the Pathfinder out of it's misery in 2005 with 195,000. Engine still ran - the rust killed it. Before we leave on any driving trip - I bring my car in for a trip inspection, they check the belts, etc., get an oil change. For the most part, I have found driving down a pleasant experience. I haven't encountered any major accidents or traffic once I get beyond VA!!!!
When we drive I leave Boston between 2 am and 4 am. I work nights, and I am used to being up all night. Everyone else snoozes. Last trip we left at 4 am. I was in Glen Allen VA for lunch. I don't stop until we hit NJ and we need gas. The following day we left Glen Allen at 6 am (2 cars - 4 adults (ages 49, 48, 44, 77) and 4 boys (ages 11, 11, 9 and 2)and drove to Brunswick GA and we stayed at a Marriott. The kids swam, we went to - don't laugh - KFC and ordered a bunch of chicken (all the KFC near me closed down) and there was a gazebo by the pool, and we all ate out there. We had the best time - plus there was a bowling alley next to the Marriott. WE had free breakfast the next morning - buffet, then we were off to WDW. We left around 9 am, arrived at OKW about 3 pm - we all changed into our bathing suits and swam until our villa's were ready.
We have a tradition when we travel by car to WDW. Normally when we drive, we are hosting another family. A couple of weeks before the trip - I make a huge spaghetti sauce with meatballs, chicken, etc. I have a vacuum sealer, freeze it, seal it. It stays frozen in our cooler, and keeps all our other stuff cold. Our first night - we make a salad, get a nice loaf of bread, nice bottle of wine, cook the pasta, sit down for a nice family meal.
You probably wouldn't do it this time of year - but I will pack a tablecloth for the rest areas and we have a picnic lunch with fixings we brought.
When my DS was small - around 4 - Matchbox had the state cars out. Between myself and friends, we were able to find every car for each state we drove through. He had a map from
AAA, and he would give us directions from the back seat. LOL Every state line we crossed he received a little wrapped present - one of the cars. His last gift he received a small rubbermaid storage container to keep the cars in. This way he had a few toys to play with in the room too.
The drive is what you make it. If you go into it thinking it will be awful - it will be. Last time I drove with my sister we had a blast. She was alone with the 3 kids and I had me, DH, DS and our Father with us. So we rotated through the cars, The only one that didn't get to rotate was the 2 yo because of the car seat and he was mad. LOL I did the little gift thing for the 2 yo. At the time he loved the Cars movie, so
Walmart had all the characters from the movie in Matchbox sized cars.
Sorry the post is so disjointed - I just kept typing as thoughts came to me.
Janis