To dump, or not to dump...

[emcclay]

Take her to WDW. If she still does not like it after, dump her! Why stay unhappy and unable to visit WDW when she is someone you should be making memories with?

 

[Debrn]

I've recently been seeing a girl from work who absolutely has no interest in ever visiting WDW... I was a die-hard fan before my divorce. Now I feel like I can never go back and enjoy myself. What does everyone think about this? Is it fair to her by giving up a vacation that gives me so much pleasure? And finally, if I could get her to go, it'd be only once, and I don't think she'd fall in love with the place.

1st being a disney die hard and also post divorce I know where your coming from. I'd say especially early on in a relationship most people are open to new adventures so saying she has no interest in something you enjoy so much tells you your answer. Good luck.

 

[dizzi]

Maybe you shoudl print this thread and ask her to read it........
sorry if that isnt funny......

But i have been following and respoonded earlier ijust kept wondering what she woudl think if she knew you asked us about your delima........

Maybe you should try to make he a basket full of WDW goodies

Good luck what ever you decide

 

[hrslvr142]

My SO have been together a year and we are making our first trip together this weekend and his FIRST TRIP ever...with that being said, I will still think he is a pretty terrific guy regardless if he likes Disney. I have 3 really good female friends who are either "single" or their husbands are not the biggest of Disney fans so I know I will go regardless. On the other hand my SO tells me it makes him laugh the way my face lights up when I talk about going to Disney and I can't imagine he will not enjoy our time together if not the Disney magic exactly. The other thing I did for this trip was plan our Disney time and he is planning the rest of the vacation. It sounds like you already decided OP so it probably doesn't matter one way or another but I would not preclude a relationship based on a week or so a year of not liking the same vacation destination. Hope you find someone who makes you happy both at home and on vacation, I agree it would be the best of both worlds.

 

[harrismargaret9]

The moment I saw the line of this thread, question crossed my mind, “Boyfriend or garbage?”

 

[mickycollege]

Hey,
I'm going to go against the grain and tell you to give her ONE more chance.

But try to find out what her problem is with WDW....
Maybe she doesn't know what it has to offer. Maybe she thinks it's only for little kids?

Does she know there is fine dining in WDW? And shows?

I would try to convince her one last time and see her point of view. Maybe she has bad information. Maybe when she went to WDW 10 years ago she didnt have a good time because she was with an ex or someone she didn't like.

 

[DisneydaveCT]

10 years ago I was dating a woman and everything was going very well. I told her about my DVC and suggested that we take a vacation to WDW. She agreed, and appeared to like the idea. Our trip went well, but on the plane back to Hartford she told me that "when we get married that I shouldn't expect to visit WDW annually." We broke up within 30 days.

 

[brucerob62]

its a good thing me and my wife love disney..dont think our marriage would have lasted...HAHA..we go almost every year..cant imagine it any other way

 

[rafiki14]

My DGF is coming with me on our first WDW trip for NYE.

She has totally bought in to the trip and is going to give it a try, even though she has never been.

You gotta find someone who will at least give it a shot!

 

[bbnursie]

I've recently been seeing a girl from work who absolutely has no interest in ever visiting WDW... I was a die-hard fan before my divorce. Now I feel like I can never go back and enjoy myself. What does everyone think about this? Is it fair to her by giving up a vacation that gives me so much pleasure? And finally, if I could get her to go, it'd be only once, and I don't think she'd fall in love with the place.

DUMP! My DH isn't a big fan of disney but goes because he knows how much I love it. He loves me so much that he goes.

 

[BLTLDZ]

DUMP...
if you really are having to ask a question like that then the way I see it is you really aren't into her that much and you will either hold a grudge that she is stopping you from doing what you want to do, or, you will be going to see the mouse by yourself!!!!

I 100% agree with this statement!!!