Tips to keep kids safe at WDW.

I fully support the good intentions of the article writer, but I'm iffy about the emphasis on "stranger-danger".

There has never been any case of a child abduction by a stranger at Disney World. Strapping your child into a stroller for the sole purpose of keeping them save from stranger abduction is analogous to chopping down every tree on your property to keep them safe from falling limbs. Now, strollers are great for tired children, and for toting gear, as a place to sit out of the sun, and even for keeping "runners" pinned down, but as child abduction prevention devices? Not so much.

The biggest risk to children at WDW is wandering off and getting lost. And by "risk", I mean tears and recriminations and more grey hairs on mum and dad's heads. Children are misplaced by the hundreds every day in Disney parks, and they are all reunited with their families, without fail, every time.

So, by all means, teach your children to find a cast member (or shop keeper, other mommy or daddy with kids, construction worker, basically anyone doing a job who has a reason to be where they are). Teach them to recognize when adults are crossing their boundaries and teach them that they have a right to speak up and protest treatment that makes them uncomfortable. Or, as we put in our church's kindergarten program, "No! Stop! Go!" But this isn't specific to Disney World. It's just sensible advice no matter where you are.

Also, with regards to, "if your kids are old enough to speak and understand numbers, they are old enough to memorize your phone number," I'd argue that children can memorize well before they can understand (after all, we don't wait until children can understand the alphabet before we teach them the ABC song!). If your child is old enough to sing "itsy bitsy spider" and their ABCs, they're old enough to be able to recite their full name, their mom and dad's full names, their phone number and even their address. They can also learn spell their last names. Put it to a catchy tune, repeat a million times, and next thing you know is you're biggest worry will be your child proudly reciting your street address to every dodgy looking street person in town! There's never any excuse for a kindergartner believing their mother's name is, "Mommy," and their own name is, "Bubba." (True story!)
 
I fully support the good intentions of the article writer, but I'm iffy about the emphasis on "stranger-danger".

With the amount of money it costs to get a day pass to the parks, I would say kids are probably safer from abduction at Disney than they are at home in their own backyards. So, yeah, take some common sense precautions, make sure your kids know to look for a cast member if they are lost, but you shouldn't be any more afraid for your child at Disney than you would be walking around your local mall or playground.
 
My 3yo wandered off and I lost him for about 15 minutes. At no point was I scared that he was abducted. The CMs were awesome and he thought the whole thing was a big adventure. (They found him in the Tomorrowland Arcade.)
 

The biggest risk to children at WDW is wandering off and getting lost. And by "risk", I mean tears and recriminations and more grey hairs on mum and dad's heads. Children are misplaced by the hundreds every day in Disney parks, and they are all reunited with their families, without fail, every time.
That's the most frequent risk, ITA.

As far as 'biggest', as in worst case... the scenario that stands out in my mind are the perverts at the resort pools. IIRC it was exposing/flashing and overt interest. There were several incidents of that in the last decade. Should not be an issue if you are swimming with your children, or monitoring them. (IMO).

Keep in mind, that I agree with everything the PP said. I'm just objectifying 'biggest'.

With DD we taught her on our first trips (she was 3yo) how to recognize a CM. Because I knew what was most likely to happen was her wandering off. Never happened though *knock on wood*. She's 14 now, so I guess I can stop worrying? :)
 
As far as 'biggest', as in worst case... the scenario that stands out in my mind are the perverts at the resort pools. IIRC it was exposing/flashing and overt interest. There were several incidents of that in the last decade. Should not be an issue if you are swimming with your children, or monitoring them. (IMO).

Keep in mind, that I agree with everything the PP said. I'm just objectifying 'biggest'.

With DD we taught her on our first trips (she was 3yo) how to recognize a CM. Because I knew what was most likely to happen was her wandering off. Never happened though *knock on wood*. She's 14 now, so I guess I can stop worrying? :)

Heck, I figure any time there's open water around you ought to be monitoring your kids closely. I once watched my toddler son, sitting on the edge of a hot tub, silently tip over and fall headfirst into the water. He was already near the bottom by the time I could take two steps forward, grab his leg and haul him out. Poor kid was terrified of water for quite awhile after that!
 
I fully support the good intentions of the article writer, but I'm iffy about the emphasis on "stranger-danger".

I agree. This list is almost entirely about viewing the world as a terrifying place where someone is always about to hurt or snatch your kid. That's not what I think of when I think of keeping my kids safe.

Heck, I figure any time there's open water around you ought to be monitoring your kids closely. I once watched my toddler son, sitting on the edge of a hot tub, silently tip over and fall headfirst into the water. He was already near the bottom by the time I could take two steps forward, grab his leg and haul him out. Poor kid was terrified of water for quite awhile after that!

Had the same experience with one of my sons. He was playing on the steps of a pool while I sat in the shade a few feet away with his baby brother. He fell off the side of the steps and it took me a few seconds to get to him and grab his arm. He was just silently sinking down to the bottom. It really brought home how quickly and easily it can happen. (And my son wouldn't go near water the rest of that summer.)
 
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I agree. The article is way over the top alarmist. Less than 100 children per year are abducted by strangers and it has NEVER happened at WDW. The vast majority of child abuse happens at the hand of someone the child knows and trusts.
 
Less than 100 children per year are abducted by strangers and it has NEVER happened at WDW.

The first half of that sentence is no comfort, I'm sure, to the parents of the small number of children who are victimized like this. I certainly understand the fear, because it's the most gut-wrenchingly horrible thing I can possibly think of. But the odds are very low -- not zero, because the fact that it has never happened doesn't mean it can't happen or won't happen. But it is vanishingly unlikely. Meanwhile, people think nothing of piling the whole family in the car and driving 1,000 miles to Orlando. Your kids are FAR more likely to die in the car than at the hands of a stranger who abducted them at WDW. If you can put that out of your mind, put the stranger danger out of your mind the same way.
 
I have to admit I am a little surprised at the reaction. While we always felt safe at WDW and DL with our kids when they were young, today is a new day and age.

I thought the ideas, while some were not new, I did like the password idea.

AKK
 
I have to admit I am a little surprised at the reaction. While we always felt safe at WDW and DL with our kids when they were young, today is a new day and age.

I thought the ideas, while some were not new, I did like the password idea.

AKK

You're absolutely right about this being a new day and age; its a much safer one. Violent crime across the country is lower than it has been in decades. As far as child abductions goes, safe recovery rates are up dramatically since the Amber Alert system was put in place. Also, only 3% of child abductions are done by a stranger. Statistically, your kids are safer with a stranger than they are with you.

http://www.dallasnews.com/opinion/sunday-commentary/20100326-Joe-Keohane-The-crime-wave-762.ece
 
Yes, that is a very good point that most fail to realize.

If your child is abducted in Disney World (or anywhere else for that matter), chances are it was someone in your party who took them....
Can't agree more! I'm so glad my kids live in a safer world than the one I grew up in! I worried about losing kids at WDW, because I didn't want them to be scared - never thought about abduction. BTW - logs my 6 year old on that trip, and my dad.
 
As the grandmother of two, I didn't really see anything wrong with the article. I think that emergency code word is a good idea. We even have one in our family - "darn Skippy". Taking a photo of your kids each day is a good idea so *you* don't forget what they are wearing. The first thing we did with our then five year old granddaughter and then again with our then five year old grandson was to show them what a Disney Cast Member looked like and where to find them. Being aware is important for every day of their lives, not just at Disney World. The phone number thing is also good and the ICE number is important. I don't have my husband in my cell phone (we are in our 50s), I have ICE - Husband so if I'm in an accident, the emergency people know who to call (can you imagine someone having to try and figure out your next of kin in an emergency on your phone contacts?). We also put a small piece of paper inside our grandkids underwear (pinned to the top) with info so they knew where it was since they were too young to know phone numbers.
 
As someone trained to educate people on safety these tips are basically spot on for what's talked about.
You have to keep in mind that things like this are being discussed assuming the person has no knowledge or common sense of safety. In fact most don't have anywhere near the amount they believe they do or will admit.
That said some stuff like keeping them in a stroller is overkill just for that matter because most people do not follow recommendations 100%. So an example would be telling someone to keep their child in arms reach and they will generally let them be in a ten foot radius where telling them to stay in the stroller will generally result in arms reach.
Finally if you think bad things don't or can't happen at Disney you are fooling yourself.
I agree the chances of an abduction are low but that doesn't mean you should let your guard down because that's when things do happen.
Personally though I would be more concern with sexual assault or theft. Some comment like the cost of Disney will help keep criminals away and I laugh. Simply look at how many people get their camera or other items stolen. If I can afford a Disney trip I can afford a camera but that doesn't stop many guests or employees for that matter.
Anyway don't let your guard down (but don't be scared either) and if you wouldn't let your kid walk alone in the ghetto don't let them do it at Disney. It's all about consistence and reinforced training that will build to safe habits
 
When my middle daughter was 17 she kindly added 348 grey hair to my head. It wasnt at a park but at a resort. We were staying at WL ground floor which is actually 1 level down from lobby. Let me add upon check in CM offered to upgrade us to Concierge for $70 more a night I declined. I woke up in middle of night and noticed my daughter wasnt in bed. I got up and noticed bathroom was closed so I thought she was taking a bath. After 45 mins I went to knock on door and she wasn't in there. Right away to sliding doors and its unlocked. Went outside cross pathway and quiet pool was right there but I dont see her. Strange as it was I didnt have a cell yet she did (she helped my dad at his business and cellphone was her pay). As I'm walking to lobby in panic....think about it WL is surrounded by woods...ok stop thinking it'll freak you out...I come upon a security guard, she immediately lets them know missing teenager. She has me follow her to lobby because there is about 10 teenagers hanging out there. Nope she's not there. She walks with me back to room to see if daughter had returned plus my 8 yr old is asleep. We go check quiet pool again no one. Then she gets radioed that they found her, she was at main pool, sitting in a lounge chair talking on her phone....needless to say I upgraded to concierge next day. I locked room keys in the safe (you cant take elevator to 7th fl without inserting key back then). At parks I always felt safe and other than the stunt my teenager did I've always felt safe at resort. Disney handled it great, security guard stayed with me entire time.
 
Some (not most, some) parents take the attitude that nothing bad can happen at Disney and that it's totally safe, therefore letting their guard down too much. I am not worried about abduction, but a child could certainly hurt themselves, drown, get lost, etc.
 

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