catize43:
I grew up in N. Cape May. worked in Wildwood and Cape May, so I am very familiar with the area. WDW is NOTHING like what your DH is used to. My DH had never been, until his 40th bday. I took him, using the theory that no one should turn 40 without having visited WDW. That year alone we ended up going 4 times. Fast forward a couple of years, we now own DVC!
The best tip I can give you: plan and have a great wealth of info. These boards will provide that. When we went I didn't know everything, but I knew a lot. A lot more than the average visitor.
Learn about, and use Fastpass well. Know the best days to visit a park. Anything to eliminate the negatives. Some of our trips have been at Christmas and Spring Break. We noticed the crowds, but have never had a trip spoiled by them. Knowledge is everything!
Dh was only humoring me by going on the first trip. Half way through, my DS looked and me said, "Look at Daddy's face, I think he got hit by pixie dust!" DH will never be obsessed like I am, but he truly enjoys every minute of our trips. Give your DH a chance, you, and HE, might be surprised!
And the LapuLapu at the Polynesian lounge is pretty darn good!
