1) The vibe of a resort is an intangible that really makes or breaks our trips. We did a December split stay Riviera/VGF, and we REALLY disliked VGF because of how crazed the lobby/restaurants/shops were. Yes, the lobby is magnificent, but it was SOOOO crowded, really left a poor taste that surprised us. Riviera gets so much hate for its uninspiring lobby, LOL, but we love how quiet it is!
1b) We "settled" on a split stay at OKW after hearing it's in the middle of nowhere and only having buses and boats -- and we LOVED it. Again, as a family, I think we get peopled out in the parks and really need a relief valve of quiet to come back to.
2) We realized later that Disney is amazing without kids! LOL. We literally "just" got home this afternoon from our first couple-only trip and it was AMAZING. So easy and romantic. This confirms my secret dream to be DVC snowbirds once the kids are grown.
3) That buying DVC doesn't save you money the way you expect. We spend so much more on more trips/APs/more dining out, but it has enriched our family's lives so much. I just did a boy's trip with just my son at AKJ and let him plan the day. We did ONE day at AK, one day at Wild Florida doing gators and air boat ride, and a ton of loafing in the hot tub. I did our couple's trip this weekend. Next up is a girl's trip with our bougie daughter at RR/VGF and water parks.
3b) Take the DVC spreadsheet nerds with a grain of salt. I love and appreciate the work they do, truly, but at the end of the day, if you want a resort with restrictions or AKJ/AKK despite higher dues for the animals, buy what makes you happy. It's too expensive to just always go by "value."
3c) Speaking of which, 1Bs are supposedly not a good "value," but they make our trips one billion percent better; laundry, locking bedroom door, full kitchen, room for spreading out, good storage -- it's just really nice.