In response to
"The long coiled phone cord with a clip described at the beginning, to attach toys to the stroller, sounds like a strangling hazard. You're pushing your child, you can't see his head (unless no sunshade) and you can't tell if the cord is wrapped around his neck..."
These cords are not that long... but, just as a child choking on a sippie cup is a hazard, or putting a toy inside his/her mouth could be a danger, I suppose these could be as well.
"Second issue - the flashlight on the scary rides - as long as the kid isn't pointing it in peoples' eyes, or at parts of the ride, or drops it on the attraction"
Ummmm... yes, don't give your todder dad's police force Magnum spot light or a laser pointer. I was thinking a lot less calaber; more like a small fisher price toy that has a light... In all of the parks, especially Magic Kingdom, during the late afternoon and night hours, there are carts with all sorts of light up things for sale. Light up roses, spinning toys w/ lights, pink light up minnie mouse ears, etc - these might work as well.