Tips for Daddy/Daughter trip?

[DisneyMama27]

DH is taking DD7 to Disney this weekend, 11/11. We have an upcoming family trip, but he couldn't wait - just joined DVC! He wanted me to go, but this time of year I can't take off, so I suggested one of the kids (I knew he would not let this go) She is so excited, and as we had to promise the other 2 solo trips, they are too!

Anyway, any tips I can pass on to him about a dad travelling solo with a little girl? I have already had the bathroom talk with him - he refuses to take a girl into the men's bathroom (too filthy) so he will wait outside for her. She is pretty good and independent with that, so I don't see a prob (but this is the main reason I said no about the 5 year old). Am I overlooking anything else? I know it's Disney, but that's no guarantee of safety. Should we have her wear a whistle or is that overkill? She's never been anywhere without me, so I am getting a little nervous, even though DH is very responsible. Can't help it..what if something happens and I am not there?

I am excited for them, just checking with my friends at the DIS for any last-minute advice!

 

[poohbear1029]

We noticed just last week...(it was our first trip w/ an infant) that at most restroom areas there is also a companion bathroom....so your DH could take your DD into that restroom and not have to worry about bringing her into the mens room.

 

[RandiB]

I like the companion bathroom idea. I don't think the whistle is overkill.

I am the less responsible between my DH and I (I am smarter (book), but a little flighty). He is pretty stressed that I am doing a trip with my DD2 and my mom (also smart and flighty). I am the kind of person who loses my wallet and keys regularly. My 35lb DD is probably tougher to lose, but my wallet and keys don't have legs (or so my DH says).

At 7, I think your DD is a good choice for the trip. They will have a blast. I am so jealous that your DH likes Disney. Mine has never been, but insists that he hates it.

 

[lovesdumbo]

I brought my DD on a solo trip to celebrate her 7th birthday. I had actually just returned from my birthday trip 2 weeks earlier and suggested that my DH take her but he isn't into Disney so I HAD to do it.

One special thing I did with DD was have our picture taken for the Leave a Legacy-those are the big marble pillars at the entrance to Epcot with etched photos. It was really fun to find our picture on our next trip. I'm taking my middle child (DS almost 6) for a solo trip in Dec and someday I'll take my youngest (DD almost 4). I do leave a surprise for the children I leave behind- a new DVD or toy or something to keep them busy while I'm gone and I bring them home something small (pen, key chain...).

My DD & I had a very special trip and I'm sure your DH & DD will too. Family trips are important for shared memories but one on one time is very special too.

 

[CarnotaurDad]

My DH and DD6 (will be 7 for their next trip) have gone for the past two years - alone...on Mother's Day weekend. What a great Mother's Day present 4 days alone in the house. Anyway, they have a great time - the bathroom is either handled by companion - he used to do men's when she was younger - we are now stopping that but he always felt most of the rest rooms were ok. Most of the Disney bathrooms seem to only have one in and out - no extra entrances to get turned around in.

The other thing we do is use hand goo instead of washing so she comes right out after going.

We had our daughter wear a mickey necklace that had our cellphone numbers engraved on it - and her name. We got it at the pet shop at DTD. It made us feel more secure knowing that she could show it to any cast member and they could call us on our cell.

There is really nothing to worry about handling - I think.

We always have them call me with their photopass number so I can look up their pictures each day and see what a great time they are having.
Have fun and welcome home.
Carnotaur Mom
Karen

 

[missymagic]

They will be fine she sounds like my 9 yr old at that age. They like being the older child and take the responsibility seriously. Maybe get her a cool fanny pack with your husbands info ...cell phone, where they are staying room number and your home info for emergency info. You just never know. put in in a pouch she wont use so it is always there.

As long as DH stands outside bathroom she should be fine. she can scream louder than finding a whistle in her shirt or pocket. Not to mention there is usually one of us caring mom's that are willing to peek in for a dad standing nervously outside. I have done it before for another dad. I agree she is a litttle old to be going into the men's room.

Tell him to take a picture of her every morning before leaving that way should something happen he has a current pic of what she is wearing that day etc. Go over the safety rules should we get separated stay in the same area but find a cast member etc. and not to panic. Not sure if the family has an extra cell phone but that could be put in her fanny pack also.

These are all things I would do with my nine yr old DD. She has been to Disney enough to understand everything I have mentioned use your judgement you know your DD and DH better than anyone.

Hope they have a great trip!! Nothing more magical than a father and DD trip to DW.