Generally, when we pull up, I hear "Ms. P, great to have you back, how are the dogs?? <to other valets> I have them!" I get checked in while kids handle valet and bellman. When we get to room, many of the bellmen know the "routine", otherwise it is usually "All the dog stuff goes in that room"... Then they usually ask "Can I get you ice?"
On departure, when the bellman is loading the car, one of the older kids will let them know which bags go in last (we have 4 drop off spots, so the better organized it is, the easier it is.) Then the bellman grabs our tags and my ECV, runs it back, brings back out merchandise and we are set. Not really a lot of explanations, I don't think.
Many if not most bellman and valets do know us on sight.
Tomorrow, I will be heading to the DLH in the AM to check in. I know how busy they will be, so plan on coming armed with a few dozen donuts from M&M donuts around the corner. Its fun to watch their faces as they go "Really??"