I'd be more angry that I was at the table next to you while you monopolized the server and made them jump thru your ***** hoops. If you were treated rudely that is a different thing alltogether but you were just being a snob.
I was the person who was more forgiving. Last, I didn't generalize - I said 50% of the commentators here are nuts for the demands that you put on a service cruise and I stick by that (actually the nut ratio appears to be much less than 50% - I think most human beings would not treat a service person like that).
So consider yourself to be (in my opinion) in the snobby 1%. The snobby 1% monopolize the servers time ruining it for others, the snobby 1% hold back on tips for minor issues (its ok i'm sure it wasn't because you overspent in some port), the snobby 1% go all "mama bear" when the server does something that they are trained to do and has worked for the other 99%.
Our server put our daughter in her chair every night, cut her pizza for her and was amazing (and I moved the silverware because it was no big deal and i'm responsible for my daughters safety not
DCL). At the begining of the cruise our daughter gave us a look like "who's this guy" putting me in a chair - had she freaked out I wouldn't have punished the server.
If the script on the cruise is to put the kid in a high chair and the server does that and your kid freaks out (and go all "mama bear" as some said) then I don't think it is the server's fault. Maybe instead you should go to DCL and get the rules changed - but I certainly wouldn't take away from a person's income for that.
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