RGLakatos
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Agreed...
...BTW Greek?
Good guess.....but no...not Greek.
Eastern European....Hungarian.

Agreed...
...BTW Greek?
I dont have a daughter, but i would want her to at least want to stay in line to meet Tiana. Wouldn't matter if she was her favorite. I'm not the OP, but as a black man, these are things that we notice. I think I saw about 20 black people on my Dream cruise in Jan. We are already the minority on the ship, so those things are noticed. With that said, I have never felt uncomfortable and the diversity of the crew really helps that. Even though times are better, there's always that thought about not being viewed in a positive light. It will never stop me, but I'm not oblivious either. To the OP, I will say that sometimes things can be racially motivated subconsciously but not racist. Some kids just gravitate to what they're used to. They're used to Cinderella and the other princesses because some may look like mommy or just because they've been around longer.
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HHHMMMVery interesting...as a Puerto Rican woman I also tend to notice things like this. However, I am a Christian mother first, not a Puerto Rican woman. Christ does not see our skin color and my main concern is that my child is happy. With that said, I would never force him to stay on line for something that does not interest him (other than family portraits lol)...
Also, it's all a matter of how we approach people and situations. If I walk in to a room thinking "I'm the only Puerto Rican woman in this room" it may show in my body language or I may misinterpret what someone says or how they look at me.
When I go to WDW or DCL I may notice our physical differences but our love for Disney out-weights any differences. I see other families with the same love for Disney that we have...I see one big Disney family...
Through DisBoards we've met some pretty wonderful people on our cruises...some we consider like-family...from across the nation and even in Austria.![]()
A cruise is a fantastic opportunity to meet various diverse groups you might not otherwise ever meet.
Say hi to everyone and chat with as many people as possible....cruises are great vacations and a great way to learn about various cultures and ethnic backgrounds without spending tens of thousands of dollars on various trips around the world!!!!!
Enjoy each other and the opportunities!!!!
RGLakatos said:Here is my dilemma....
The character you are referring to is simply not a classic character and has nothing to do with skin color.....it's ridiculous to think that is the issue.
However, by the mere topic subject line you chose, that your not a racist, would indicate that you most certainly are a racist.
If the topic subject line you chose does not indicate your a racist then the words you used, "our line" certainly shows ignorance and racism on your part.
It's obvious you have a racial issue with Caucasians....stop denying it and simply admit it....only then will you be able to fix your internal issues with the opposite race.
Roy G. Lakatos, PhD
(Clinical Psychology)
And I put my name and degree status not to indicate status but to indicate I am trained in these type if issues and concerns....your issue is very obvious.
Being leery of situations when you are a minority doesnt make you a racist. Even being racially motivated doesnt equate either. Treating someone differently based on your race does. A lot of black people have the same issues with good reason. Would you call a woman that knows rape victims a sexist because she doesn't automatically trust all men? The OP didn't mention anything about treating white people a certain way. She just had a concern.
Rape victim??? hhhmmm
In JRHS I was jumped by 3 african american girls from my school in Queens NY. They stumped on me and kicked me under a parked car while they called me names due to my race. It was a cold winter day with 2 feet of snow...I'll never forget it. Should I automatically not trust african americans because of my experience? I'm sorry, I dont agree...we see the world differently.
Those that have malice in their hearts is not because of their race.
And to make such comparisons to this thread...IDK...I'm leaving this thread.
Nice chatting with everyone...
Me either. It always bothered me that Snow White had black hair and not a blond!
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What in the world would make you think Snow White should have blond hair?
Here is a quote from my Grimm version: " Once upon a time in the middle of winter a queen sat at her window working, and her embroidery frame was of ebony. And as she worked, gazing out on the snow, she pricked her finger and there fell from it three drops of blood onto the snow. And she said to herself, 'Oh that I had a child as white as snow, as red as blood, and as black as the wood of the embroidery frame.'"
I have never read or seen a version of the story where she did not have black hair.
Me either. It always bothered me that Snow White had black hair and not a blond!
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What in the world would make you think Snow White should have blond hair?
Here is a quote from my Grimm version: " Once upon a time in the middle of winter a queen sat at her window working, and her embroidery frame was of ebony. And as she worked, gazing out on the snow, she pricked her finger and there fell from it three drops of blood onto the snow. And she said to herself, 'Oh that I had a child as white as snow, as red as blood, and as black as the wood of the embroidery frame.'"
I have never read or seen a version of the story where she did not have black hair.
Snow WHITE. When I hear that name I picture a Scandanavian gal.....fair skinned and hair as white as snow.
I want to start off by saying that I'm not a racist, nor am I trying to play the race card.
My family and I recently had the pleasure of sailing aboard the Disney Magic. With that said, when the characters came out for pictures, the line for Princess Tiana only had about 10 people. (including our fam) However, the line for the other characters held hundreds of people. We are an African American family and my very own daughter wanted to leave Tiana's line and go to the others line. I guess she felt as though our line wasn't important, considering the other kids her age was in a different line. My wife felt extremely sorry for Tiana, but I assured her that Tiana's line was so short because she was a new character, not because of the color of her shin. (gotta keep wifey happy) Surprisingly, Tiana continued to wave and smile and seemed as though she was accustomed to the lack of attention she was given. I'm just saying![]()
Lol that pretty much sums it up right there, although very minor you left off Princess Sophia who is Hispanic.
problem is, Tiana isn't a classic.. yet.... give it a few years.. She's here to stay